Just trying to have an understanding why she lied.

[Shootin4Dreams]

Good morning FB. Been doing a great deal of thinking here lately. A few red flags have been shown/brought to my attention. At first I was ignoring them but maybe I should stop that and face them head on. I just refuse to repeat the things that I encountered in the past. Some ppl tell me that I'm too cautious and observant but I call it defense mode. At least in this case, I won't be surprised.
Anyways time to eat breakfast and get a lil studying in before I start this work day.
— feeling bummed.

About my last gf/dating girl, basically obviously, this has to do with other girl i had, because, why would she say this. But, then make an excuse about me not being independent? Howcome, she wouldn't tell me the truth that the girl contacted her if obviously she is talking about being a side girl on this facebook post? I know my other girl contacted her because it was the day after i cut her off because she was ignoring me. That's the only thing I want to understand if someone could insight me on howcome.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

It doesn't matter. Stop acting like a b!tch.

 

[Jetleg]

Who cares, if youll react then youll look like a pu77y just ignore it, the best way to treat a chick

 

[dustmuffin]

Women lie all of the time. What is funny is that the will call out men for lies pretending that one never comes out of their mouths. It doesn't mater why she lied. Forget about it.

 

[Tictac]

"It doesn't matter. Stop acting like a b!tch."
__________

This ^^^

You don't need to understand. You need to observe, accept, decide and act.

 

[Maximus Rex]

About my last gf/dating girl, basically obviously, this has to do with other girl i had, because, why would she say this. But, then make an excuse about me not being independent? Howcome, she wouldn't tell me the truth that the girl contacted her if obviously she is talking about being a side girl on this facebook post? I know my other girl contacted her because it was the day after i cut her off because she was ignoring me. That's the only thing I want to understand if someone could insight me on howcome.

26) When a Ho Leaves Your Ass, Don’t Try to Figure It Out

All women are fickle. Hos are no different. Women function on 99.9% emotions. B*tches leave for the dumbest reasons, or no reason at all. Least of all the reasons you think it is. And I’ll tell you something else, if you know why she left, you weren’t pimping. If a real pimp spots a problem, he’s obligated to solve it. That’s why when a ho leaves, you don’t supposed to know why.-Rosebudd Bitterdose

 

[Reykhel]

Agree with Maximus.....Men think Rationally, hence why you're trying to figure her out; and women think emotionally. Thus a woman will make a decision based on how she's feeling at that moment, she will then rationalise the decision thinking if that's what she felt (intuition blah blah blah) then it must be the right decistion.....

Like the above states, women are fickle.....waste of time trying to figure them out.....just base all of your judgements on
her actions never her words....

Your motto is : show me. ......she's shown you. All you need to know.

Fight club (book) quote "a tiger can smile, a snake will say it loves you, lies make us evil" .....actions, actions, actions.....show me show me show me

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

I agree and I am on the road of not caring anymore, i might try to hit her up in about a year or so when I got better options to try to get her as f buddy because thats what I wanted in the first past, but, I accidently said I liked her and it went downhill from there I learned my lesson to just shut up and keep my cool. It just made me mad when she dumped me and basically said I am not independent out of nowhere for no reason and said she wasn't ready to date right now and I told her I got accepted into broadcast school she said I don't wanna tell you "I'd show up when you blow up but... im not gonna say yes or no right now" and she said she still has feelings for the guy who doesn't ****ING care about her and used her as side chick for years and she made excuse not ready to date right now I was so ****ing pissed man I kept my cool though just in case and just said take care and hung up. Shes the ***** that made my cognitive dissonance in check and turned my Red Pill and I am glad.

 

[Poon King]

Get use to it. All women lie.

Why? Because a lot of their power comes from manipulating men. Most men's heads would explode if they knew the lengths women go to manipulate them.