"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just trying to get a fell for this place...

Casino

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Are some of these people so socially inept that they have trouble making eye contact and saying "hello" to random people?

is there any other sites for more advanced DJ's that can discuss some cutting edge ****. I mean cause mother****ers is out there scared and ****. i just want to talk about some real ****ing DJ **** and not how "I couldnt say HI to an 90 year old lady in a wheel chair and Quiznos" god damn that **** is lame.

seriously whoever runs this ***** needs to dedicate a section to newbies..cause this **** is straight up lame and after seeing some of your pictures I am ****ing embarrassed to be associated with this **** sometimes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Big Eee Zee

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he's an ass about it, but he's right. This site has become a place where there are like 40 of us who contribute (or try to) and hundreds of newbs who keep saying shyt like:


"my g/f left me and i dont know what to do and she is looking at other guys and i cant sleep and i want her back so bad that i sent her flowers and wrote her poems and i dont know what i did wrong can you help me"


It gets old.
 

TedJustAdmitIt

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You're b!tching about people being b!tches.

Oh,the irony.

This is for the more technically minded seductionists:

http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/

This is PlayerSupreme's site,doesn't get alot of traffic but there's a nice metaphysical bent to PS's writings and plenty of good stuff has been posted in the past:

http://pimphop.com/phpBB2/

To be honest tho there's an equal amount of chaff on all sites to do with seduction along with many who don't really get but pretend they do and dish out "advice" left,right and center(KBJ).....this site is no worse really.

You just have to dig a bit to find the wheat...that's all.

Have you THOROUGHLY searched and read this site?

Cos there's been some very good articles posted...granted a lot were posted in the past,but they are there.

From the tone of your post tho,I think fastseduction.com might be more your thing.....more "game".
 

nishbuk

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We have lost alot of the older sages...Well at least there are some of us who ARE making an effort. And those of us that are driven will be teaching class here eventually...
There are alot of newbs here including myself...
you might want to try
pua4life, or fastseduction.com
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sasha

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ofcourse!!

All newbies comes here and as soon as they relize what they have been doing wrong and as soon as they learn they split from this site and never come back!! :woo:
 

cactus3178

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Casino, like it was mentioned above, check out ASF if you haven't already.

It's a lot more focused, less n00bs, more business. Obviously, this place has it's 'issues', but don't forget that people have to learn somewhere. True, if they'd learn to STFU and READ, take ACTION, and see an IMPROVEMENT instead of whining here, that'd be great, but the both of us know that ain't gonna happen.

They have to take that step for themselves.
 

Alphathree

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The only thing wrong with this place is the negativity constantly spread 'round by just a few people.
 

Casino

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I like ASF but the board just sucks

i think im going to start a UBB and invite some of you guys and just kick real world knowledge. I mean banging chick knowledge. No this quasi psychological mumbo jumbo.

pimp ish.

ATLien style.
 

mrRuckus

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Originally posted by Casino
I like ASF but the board just sucks

i think im going to start a UBB and invite some of you guys and just kick real world knowledge. I mean banging chick knowledge. No this quasi psychological mumbo jumbo.

pimp ish.

ATLien style.

Have you considered possibly broadening your horizons a bit beyond "pimpin some hos" and perhaps learn some useful knowledge such as effective written communication skills? Perhaps you could try some literature, science, or math?

You could continue to deride people in five threads who may be more introverted than you naturally but may kick your ass in other areas, but that would just make you look like an ass so I know you won't do that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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