"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just threw a party...

Flabbergasped?

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Total sausagefest. I invited over a dozen girls, and two came. One of them was my cousin.

I graduated high school a few months ago, and most of the people I invited were from my graduating class. Also, I'm fairly popular, and not surprisingly, most people agreed to attend the party, called for the address, etc, yet didn't show up last minute. Now, it doesn't matter that the party flopped, but it surprises me how so many people could agree to attend, then not show up without calling to cancel, etc.

There's a question somewhere in there. Any ideas?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tom Juan

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Flabbergasped? said:
Total sausagefest. I invited over a dozen girls, and two came. One of them was my cousin.

I graduated high school a few months ago, and most of the people I invited were from my graduating class. Also, I'm fairly popular, and not surprisingly, most people agreed to attend the party, called for the address, etc, yet didn't show up last minute. Now, it doesn't matter that the party flopped, but it surprises me how so many people could agree to attend, then not show up without calling to cancel, etc.

There's a question somewhere in there. Any ideas?

ROFFL! Quite some party THAT was!

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup::crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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the party was promising to them but things came up to them that were more attractive.. how many kegs you have? you can work on getting more girls to buy into your party and actually have them there and calling people to come and join... first you get the girls then guys just kinda show up...
 

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That and assuming they all just graduated high school or are in high school at the moment, their attention spans are probably not gonna be that great. Or if they were already drunk then they probably don't feel like going anywhere. The same thing happens in college too, pretty common occurrence.
 
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