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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Just threw a party...

Flabbergasped?

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Total sausagefest. I invited over a dozen girls, and two came. One of them was my cousin.

I graduated high school a few months ago, and most of the people I invited were from my graduating class. Also, I'm fairly popular, and not surprisingly, most people agreed to attend the party, called for the address, etc, yet didn't show up last minute. Now, it doesn't matter that the party flopped, but it surprises me how so many people could agree to attend, then not show up without calling to cancel, etc.

There's a question somewhere in there. Any ideas?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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Flabbergasped? said:
Total sausagefest. I invited over a dozen girls, and two came. One of them was my cousin.

I graduated high school a few months ago, and most of the people I invited were from my graduating class. Also, I'm fairly popular, and not surprisingly, most people agreed to attend the party, called for the address, etc, yet didn't show up last minute. Now, it doesn't matter that the party flopped, but it surprises me how so many people could agree to attend, then not show up without calling to cancel, etc.

There's a question somewhere in there. Any ideas?

ROFFL! Quite some party THAT was!

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup::crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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the party was promising to them but things came up to them that were more attractive.. how many kegs you have? you can work on getting more girls to buy into your party and actually have them there and calling people to come and join... first you get the girls then guys just kinda show up...
 

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That and assuming they all just graduated high school or are in high school at the moment, their attention spans are probably not gonna be that great. Or if they were already drunk then they probably don't feel like going anywhere. The same thing happens in college too, pretty common occurrence.
 
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