just tell me the god damn magic

[tarotale]

i ve been reading numerous posts previously... and i figured that there are

just few ppl who post threads on how they do with women.

they make it seem so easy. according to their text, women chase them.

ya the important word the girls CHASE them, not they chase girls.

i don know how in the hell you guys can manage that. i am only at the level

to get number from girls, talk with them, be CF, hard to get, and blah blah

but they don't call me, don't txt me first, don't ask "why don't you love me"

or "why not me?" or "can you please hang out with me tomorrow" etc etc

you know, it just doesn't happen to me. they don chase me, but i have to

initiate everything and sorta chase them in order to start an attraction.

but you guys... girls just follow you. how do you do that? how?

teach it to me, just tell me. spend 10 seconds, i don care. just tell me the

god damn magic so i can take it to the next level.

 

[lghost]

Whats the point? It might make you feel good temporary. But do you really want the woman to call the shots? She doesn't either... Date chicks younger than you... Date pathetic chicks... That **** is just childish... Realize that and abra kadabra, you got a sophisticated chick calling you 15 mins after you got off the phone with her... Brains and confidence go a long way...

 

[Jitterbug]

People chase what they think is valuable (and attainable to some extent).

If you want women to chase you, work on yourself and build your values up in the 4 major areas: looks, personality, fame, financial success.

That's all there is to it, but it's of course a hell lot easier said than done.

 

[DJsparky]

Okay, imagine that your post is like a computer script that you are sending to your brain and everything in the script you will 100% belief, now read it and you may just see why you dont have the god damn magic, it's what you are telling yourself.

 

[cola]

Stop caring about getting females so much and work on you. Look your best
Dress your best and carry yourself like your the most important person in the world. And the best part about it is that in your reality you are the most important person in the world.
So carry yourself accordingly.
Integrity is doing the same alone as you are around others.
If you have bad habbits irradicate them even when your alone.
I.e if you slouch don't do it at all even by yourself.
Work out because you need to be healthy.
Dress nice not becausse your trying to impress people but because the clothes look good on you and you want to impress yourself.
Just be the best you can be
Work on you
And the females will come naturally.
No gimmicks no fascade its really that simple
Goos luck on your journey and keep us posted
-chris

 

[everywomanshero]

It's actually incredibly simple.

You need to look like a cool guy who is clued in, not like you're wearing clothes moms picked out for you.

You don't want to be seem as too quiet because people value confidence in US society. Open your trap, seem alive and charasmatic.

Depressed people are definitely not charamastic on a regular basis. If you think you might be depressed or have some kind of anxiety condition, you should definitely get checked out by a mental health professional or bring it up to your medical doctor.

Don't be a pansy in the bedroom. Make it exciting and passionate. After the first few times with a girl, don't be afraid to bust out a vibe or something while your ****ing or eating her *****.

Don;t be a ***** about ****ing chicks. Do it in the car, do it on the first date, get her alone and **** her.

Make yourself busy. Get some hobbies you actually enjoy, not ones you pretend to enjoy because a chick might think is cool. You want to be busy enjoying life and have things to do besides worrying about women, amazingly enough this actually leads to more women because they can detect you have a life that doesn't revolve around mircoanalyzing their every thought.

Unless you're in a LTR, do things on your terms. Make things work for you and the funny thing is she will end up liking you a lot more. Let me give you an example, girl says she can't go up to your place or won't come up or whatever, now you can be a big ol ***** and accept defeat "o no she says she doesn't do that, guess I better let her go home now" or yu can end up ****ing her in the vehicle. That's a real life example. This often happens to guys when they agree to meet her at a bar and she's with 8 friends or some other place where a lay is totally unlikely instead of setting their own terms for the interactions. Rememeber, you are supposed to be busy as explained above and a guy who is busy won't have time for bull**** that's not going to lead to anything which is one of the reasons I suggest being busy in the first place (the other is it keeps you from worrying too much over piddly stuff that's only important because you chose to make it so)

If what you're currently doing isn't working, then the answer is to do something else. You will have to adapt over time. Sometimes you will push too hard one way, something you'll lean too far the other. The basics above should allow you to sleep with a wide variety of women. Think in terms of efficiency and what's going to work for you.

 

[Captain]

ya the important word the girls CHASE them, not they chase girls.

Women will chase a man they are ATTRACTED to.

To a woman to chase you, you need to get them attracted to you.

Unless you're in a LTR, do things on your terms

You should do things on your own terms anytime. You do the same things to attract a woman that you do to keep them.

 

[Credos]

- Practice makes perfect
- Go with the flow (meaning do your thing)

that's all the advice I can give , most of us started as AFCs, some of us still are... Just get out there and do your thing, and by doing you'll learn, that's the only way.

No magic pill, no nothing, it all comes from in yourself, we can't do something for you, only give advice, and there you got it. Now go, stop wasting time and try to pickup women, and if you fail -> NEXT

 

[slaog]

Firstly develop a high value mindset and then the rest will follow. When you have a high value mindset you will be a high value person which attracts women.

Stop caring about getting females so much and work on you. Look your best
Dress your best and carry yourself like your the most important person in the world. And the best part about it is that in your reality you are the most important person in the world.
So carry yourself accordingly.
Integrity is doing the same alone as you are around others.
If you have bad habbits irradicate them even when your alone.
I.e if you slouch don't do it at all even by yourself.
Work out because you need to be healthy.
Dress nice not becausse your trying to impress people but because the clothes look good on you and you want to impress yourself.
Just be the best you can be
Work on you
And the females will come naturally.
No gimmicks no fascade its really that simple
Goos luck on your journey and keep us posted
-chris

 

[tarotale]

great advices... thank you all