"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just started - Near Paralysed arm!

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I have just started proper weight training(e.g sets/reps) doing worthwhile exercises (e.g squats). I train three times a week, monday, wednesday and friday.



I trained for the first time ever on monday and i really enjoyed it. I was expecting some small aches the next day - and i had them.



Then, i wake up this morning to a aching pain in my left arm which is so painful i can't move it all the way out!

I'm not training today to make sure i don't inflame the ache any more.



Is there anything that could explain this? Will it go away?

Thanks,

Donny
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thats why you train each body part 1x per week and give it the proper time to heal and rebuild
 

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If you didn't feel any immediate pain after your workout, then I think it's safe to assume that you didn't seriously injure yourself, and that your pain is simply a byproduct of your very first workout. Give it a few days and see if the pain goes away -- if not, see your doctor.
 

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You are just sore from your workout....and since this is your first workout ever...then you should be really sore...work out every bodypart once a week....and make sure to warm up and stretch before hitting the weights....


-DJLiquid
 

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I just started working out this summer, too, and I had the exact same thing. The first time I did biceps/triceps training (mind you, this was in a course, so I'm sure I did nothing wrong), I couldn't extend my left arm the next day due to some quite intense pain on the inner side of the ellbow. The right arm followed the day after...
Apparently it was just sore, as it went away and never came back. Your muscles aren't used to this kind of stress at the beginning.

So, I know how you feel, and it is kinda scary, but don't worry, it'll pass. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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happened to me when I started too. I didn't stretch enough n I overworked my body. On your first times (first 2 months or so) u should be do'N full body work out 10-15 reps no more then 2 exercise per muscle group so u can build a base.

I worked my bicep too much, I couldn't extend it more then 45 degree angle. I'm serious. It lasted over a week.

Oh and I betcha are not a lefty huh?

Remember to stretch after each sets. Hold the stretch for at least 10s or it's pointless.

You're muscle are 'virgin' - they are not used to take'N it so that is why u get really sore the first times u work out. If u go all out too much - they can't take it.
 

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If you want to keep this type of thing from happening, make CERTAIN to stretch after you lift. I have yet to get this type of pain, no matter how hard or often I lift, because I stretch and stretch after workouts.

This, of course, is only if you'd like to not have this sort of pain. Maybe you're a masochist and you're in to it? who knows...?
 

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I'm not a masochist - but I actually miss that type of pain. I always believed that if u come out from a work out sore, the more u are sore the better your work out was. now I barely feel anything anymore.

:mad:
 

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The pain has gone now, i just need to remember to warm up/down properly before and after workouts.


It bloomin' hurt at the time though - a valuable aid for anyone else just starting.


Donny
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some vitamin C should aid your recovery (just wait until you do a serious leg workout for the first time)
 
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