"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just started - Near Paralysed arm!

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I have just started proper weight training(e.g sets/reps) doing worthwhile exercises (e.g squats). I train three times a week, monday, wednesday and friday.



I trained for the first time ever on monday and i really enjoyed it. I was expecting some small aches the next day - and i had them.



Then, i wake up this morning to a aching pain in my left arm which is so painful i can't move it all the way out!

I'm not training today to make sure i don't inflame the ache any more.



Is there anything that could explain this? Will it go away?

Thanks,

Donny
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thats why you train each body part 1x per week and give it the proper time to heal and rebuild
 

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If you didn't feel any immediate pain after your workout, then I think it's safe to assume that you didn't seriously injure yourself, and that your pain is simply a byproduct of your very first workout. Give it a few days and see if the pain goes away -- if not, see your doctor.
 

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You are just sore from your workout....and since this is your first workout ever...then you should be really sore...work out every bodypart once a week....and make sure to warm up and stretch before hitting the weights....


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I just started working out this summer, too, and I had the exact same thing. The first time I did biceps/triceps training (mind you, this was in a course, so I'm sure I did nothing wrong), I couldn't extend my left arm the next day due to some quite intense pain on the inner side of the ellbow. The right arm followed the day after...
Apparently it was just sore, as it went away and never came back. Your muscles aren't used to this kind of stress at the beginning.

So, I know how you feel, and it is kinda scary, but don't worry, it'll pass. :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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happened to me when I started too. I didn't stretch enough n I overworked my body. On your first times (first 2 months or so) u should be do'N full body work out 10-15 reps no more then 2 exercise per muscle group so u can build a base.

I worked my bicep too much, I couldn't extend it more then 45 degree angle. I'm serious. It lasted over a week.

Oh and I betcha are not a lefty huh?

Remember to stretch after each sets. Hold the stretch for at least 10s or it's pointless.

You're muscle are 'virgin' - they are not used to take'N it so that is why u get really sore the first times u work out. If u go all out too much - they can't take it.
 

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If you want to keep this type of thing from happening, make CERTAIN to stretch after you lift. I have yet to get this type of pain, no matter how hard or often I lift, because I stretch and stretch after workouts.

This, of course, is only if you'd like to not have this sort of pain. Maybe you're a masochist and you're in to it? who knows...?
 

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I'm not a masochist - but I actually miss that type of pain. I always believed that if u come out from a work out sore, the more u are sore the better your work out was. now I barely feel anything anymore.

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The pain has gone now, i just need to remember to warm up/down properly before and after workouts.


It bloomin' hurt at the time though - a valuable aid for anyone else just starting.


Donny
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Some vitamin C should aid your recovery (just wait until you do a serious leg workout for the first time)
 
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