"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Just Started DJing

SamRi72

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 27, 2006
Messages
128
Reaction score
0
Location
I'm in ur house eatin' ur furnature
Aight so a while back, I turned to yall for some help DJing. It's been two weeks since I really started so here's my status report.

Things I did to get started:

I did not change my look to any extremes or start working out.
I still wear glasses instead of contacts.

After reading a variety of really good articles and powerful writings from Pook, I learned to do the following:

Put myself on the pedestal- This has allowed me to get out of the cliche "liking clingy high school student" and into some really interesting action. I practice my game on at least four girls on any given day and I use what I've learned applied to what I already have.

Use Kino- Being a comedian, I have a ton of friends and a lot of social circles. The problem was that women were not taking me seriously and instantly friend-zoned me whenever I tried to use my comedy. Kino adds a fun, unpredictable variable of sexuality to my conversations and I use Kino that models my nature. Currently, I don't use Kino on the 8's I'm pursuing and only testing it on the 6's with a lot of success.

Boosting my already extreme confidence- For finals, I really needed a good confidence boost so I got some confidence music (Magic Stick, Headstrong, theme to Top Gun) and got on with mah bad self. This not only helped me ace all of my finals, but it also allowed me to get even better at my game.

Where I stand:
- I've been taking a lot more risks with my even higher confidence. Consequences have ranged from detentions to getting slapped. The rewards have been much greater, as my rep is even better than ever. Even more people want to know my name.

- I'm finally starting to learn game. Articles can help, but inner game is all from experience. Hopefully, I might even get my game up to Addman's level, but that's really optimistic.

Situations I'd like some comments on:
Winter Formal is in 9 days and I haven't asked anyone. I'm going to go no matter what since I want to crash the afterparty, but I'm still debating whether I should take one of my 6's along. If anyone has any good advice or articles about this, please pass it my way. Either that, or should I try to DJ at dances. Tons of people will be paired up, so stagging is tough, but I'm up for a challenge. :box:

More to come as well as status on my DJing. I may have started out late (Senior year) but I'm aiming to end up on the top of my school by the end of the year.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

NeedsAGuitar

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2006
Messages
12
Reaction score
0
SamRi72 said:
Use Kino- Being a comedian, I have a ton of friends and a lot of social circles. The problem was that women were not taking me seriously and instantly friend-zoned me whenever I tried to use my comedy. Kino adds a fun, unpredictable variable of sexuality to my conversations and I use Kino that models my nature. Currently, I don't use Kino on the 8's I'm pursuing and only testing it on the 6's with a lot of success.
Do you know what ****y and funny is? There is such thing as being too funny. And how sexual are you with your kino? Too friendly kino can get you friend-zoned but you dont wan't to overdo it.
 

SamRi72

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 27, 2006
Messages
128
Reaction score
0
Location
I'm in ur house eatin' ur furnature
Yea, I know when I've gone too far. I'm glad you caught onto that: there is a reason I only use kino on my 6's. I'm still modestly new at it. For the most part, I can tell how things are going via body language and when it's time to save face and walk away because I went too far with it. By this post, you should know that I am being ****y :p. Thanks for the info though.
 

CptFantastic

New Member
Joined
Feb 2, 2007
Messages
4
Reaction score
0
I have this problem a lot too. I've actually stopped trying to be humorous when I first meet girls.
 
Top