"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just Started DJing

SamRi72

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Aight so a while back, I turned to yall for some help DJing. It's been two weeks since I really started so here's my status report.

Things I did to get started:

I did not change my look to any extremes or start working out.
I still wear glasses instead of contacts.

After reading a variety of really good articles and powerful writings from Pook, I learned to do the following:

Put myself on the pedestal- This has allowed me to get out of the cliche "liking clingy high school student" and into some really interesting action. I practice my game on at least four girls on any given day and I use what I've learned applied to what I already have.

Use Kino- Being a comedian, I have a ton of friends and a lot of social circles. The problem was that women were not taking me seriously and instantly friend-zoned me whenever I tried to use my comedy. Kino adds a fun, unpredictable variable of sexuality to my conversations and I use Kino that models my nature. Currently, I don't use Kino on the 8's I'm pursuing and only testing it on the 6's with a lot of success.

Boosting my already extreme confidence- For finals, I really needed a good confidence boost so I got some confidence music (Magic Stick, Headstrong, theme to Top Gun) and got on with mah bad self. This not only helped me ace all of my finals, but it also allowed me to get even better at my game.

Where I stand:
- I've been taking a lot more risks with my even higher confidence. Consequences have ranged from detentions to getting slapped. The rewards have been much greater, as my rep is even better than ever. Even more people want to know my name.

- I'm finally starting to learn game. Articles can help, but inner game is all from experience. Hopefully, I might even get my game up to Addman's level, but that's really optimistic.

Situations I'd like some comments on:
Winter Formal is in 9 days and I haven't asked anyone. I'm going to go no matter what since I want to crash the afterparty, but I'm still debating whether I should take one of my 6's along. If anyone has any good advice or articles about this, please pass it my way. Either that, or should I try to DJ at dances. Tons of people will be paired up, so stagging is tough, but I'm up for a challenge. :box:

More to come as well as status on my DJing. I may have started out late (Senior year) but I'm aiming to end up on the top of my school by the end of the year.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SamRi72 said:
Use Kino- Being a comedian, I have a ton of friends and a lot of social circles. The problem was that women were not taking me seriously and instantly friend-zoned me whenever I tried to use my comedy. Kino adds a fun, unpredictable variable of sexuality to my conversations and I use Kino that models my nature. Currently, I don't use Kino on the 8's I'm pursuing and only testing it on the 6's with a lot of success.
Do you know what ****y and funny is? There is such thing as being too funny. And how sexual are you with your kino? Too friendly kino can get you friend-zoned but you dont wan't to overdo it.
 

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Yea, I know when I've gone too far. I'm glad you caught onto that: there is a reason I only use kino on my 6's. I'm still modestly new at it. For the most part, I can tell how things are going via body language and when it's time to save face and walk away because I went too far with it. By this post, you should know that I am being ****y :p. Thanks for the info though.
 

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I have this problem a lot too. I've actually stopped trying to be humorous when I first meet girls.
 
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