"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just split from a STR...

stevey_2000

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My G/f of 2 months and i have decided to split after a very rocky last few weeks, basically we were very different and it was mutual because she felt it was time to part but gradually it's beginning to dawn on me that should i have done it like this and not given it a few more weeks?, this is probably the first time i have called the shots in splitting but something tells me i should have done it as i feel very bad for doing it this evening!,

experience in doing this anyone?, i'm feeling really, really bad at the mo!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nishbuk

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Did you have anal sex wityh her?

Ninja out
lol. Classica Black Italian. :D
 

Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by stevey_2000
My G/f of 2 months and i have decided to split after a very rocky last few weeks, basically we were very different and it was mutual because she felt it was time to part but gradually it's beginning to dawn on me that should i have done it like this and not given it a few more weeks?, this is probably the first time i have called the shots in splitting but something tells me i should have done it as i feel very bad for doing it this evening!,

experience in doing this anyone?, i'm feeling really, really bad at the mo!
I thought you didn't need this site anymore! :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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stevey_2000

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hey BP, i've been trying to PM you, get rid of some of those messages ;)

i know, just felt very guilty finishing with my girl but feel ok today!
 
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