"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just split from a STR...

stevey_2000

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My G/f of 2 months and i have decided to split after a very rocky last few weeks, basically we were very different and it was mutual because she felt it was time to part but gradually it's beginning to dawn on me that should i have done it like this and not given it a few more weeks?, this is probably the first time i have called the shots in splitting but something tells me i should have done it as i feel very bad for doing it this evening!,

experience in doing this anyone?, i'm feeling really, really bad at the mo!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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nishbuk

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Did you have anal sex wityh her?

Ninja out
lol. Classica Black Italian. :D
 

Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by stevey_2000
My G/f of 2 months and i have decided to split after a very rocky last few weeks, basically we were very different and it was mutual because she felt it was time to part but gradually it's beginning to dawn on me that should i have done it like this and not given it a few more weeks?, this is probably the first time i have called the shots in splitting but something tells me i should have done it as i feel very bad for doing it this evening!,

experience in doing this anyone?, i'm feeling really, really bad at the mo!
I thought you didn't need this site anymore! :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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stevey_2000

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hey BP, i've been trying to PM you, get rid of some of those messages ;)

i know, just felt very guilty finishing with my girl but feel ok today!
 
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