"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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just spent 4 hours on skype drunk, to learn this.

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if a girl says she is Your " best friend" GET THE **** OUT OF THERE!. RUN! RUN far WAY!. don't be a total AFC **** ball. RUN!

yes i am still drunk.
yes it;'s the same girl as before.
no i wont bring this up again
yes i am depressed right now.
yes i may have ****ed up a good friendship with ****ed up feelings


so. guys. don't do it! if you like the girls. don't do what i did. ok. just leave. don't do **** for them


/ end drunken rant
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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And this is why we:
a) Tell you to move on
b) Tell you to MOVE THE F*CK ON
c) Tell you to spin plates
d) Tell you that once you're in the friendzone, there is no way out, and therefore, you need to move on
e) Don't get drunken on skype with a chick
f) Don't drunken post on the internet, you'll make a retard out of yourself.
 

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Ok I just noticed that you have like 5 threads about this girl.

Have you even gone out with her??

Hate to read how you got used by this female for 4 hours :mad:

I hope you learned your lesson.

1. Make women earn your time: You talking to a woman for 4 hours and she hasn't even gone out with you yet/kissed you yet/had sex with you yet.

You need serious help brother.
 

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Time is important! What better could the OP have done with his time?

Watch comedy: Raises endorphins, improves immune system.

Listen to music: Helps you relax and improves your mood.

Go do tai chi: Makes your posture more relaxed and lessens anxiety.

Just keep in mind that you don't need NO ONES approval but your own. And don't worry about time wasted, what matters is the now.

real2... That's one badass signature you have there.
 

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I'm one of those who believe guys can be friends with girls. Obviously hooking up with chicks is the ultimate goal, but i have one friend who is an HB9.5 (Literally every guy AND girl who meet this chick wanna hook up with her), and she is one of my best friends. We always have fun hanging out together, and we usually switch off buying each other drinks. Yeah, originally i wanted to hook up with her, but i came to realize after a while she only wanted to be friends, and I've made my peace with that. Since then, every time we hang out it's always a good time, and we even make out when we're wasted. It's all in good fun and I'm totally fine with that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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f283000 said:
Hate to read how you got used by this female for 4 hours :mad:
Make that 10 years!

I'm not sure I've known of a oneitis that has lasted as long as this one has, its really quite amazing. Now that hes finally put himself out there and got the inevitable rejection, hopefully our boy Packers can finally start moving on
 

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real2 said:
Ah yes, nothing better than a drunk rant :yes:

Vodka is a window to your soul
i wish it was vodka was rum.

@SandHawk
and yes i am moving on

@f283000
yeah i know it was a waist of time but i had nothing better to do. plus i was drinking so. did help a lot should have just played cod

@ grovy
i don't need her approval i just want to **** the **** out of her. but aparently they call that rape these days lol. jk

yeah i could have spent it doing lots of other things. but i don't have many friends ATM so. i would have just wasted it on COD: black ops. may as well stare at a pretty face for 4 hours instead.

@Tesl

it's more like 5 and 3 of those years we didn't talk much.
 

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real2 said:
Had the inverse of your situation. Was trying to keep myself as just a friend with an HB6 & HB7 at the time.

Kept avoiding HB6's come-ons, on the other hand, HB7 got drunk, and I got drunk, and we ****ed. Regardless, HB7 also had a nice friend HB7.5 who was also quite the pleasure :yes: .

Sometimes being friends is all it takes, as long as you don't care :yes:


i stopped caring ages ago. i guess she still dose. but whatever. i guess she thinks she can just use me for her ****. well not anymore!
 
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