"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just something I've noticed

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At the bottom of the main page it says:

"All times are GMT. The time now is XX:YY AM/PM"


and yet the times aren't GMT, they're 1 hour ahead of GMT.

The time is now 02:55 but the forum says 03:55. I know it doesn't really matter but just sayin...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah I noticed that too when somebody gamed backbreaker calling him a tool for trying to AMOG him at 3 in the morning. Sad thing I laughed when I realize he was posting at 2 in the morning.
 

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Well, duh

All the daylight the rest of the world saves goes to Greenwich, doesn't it?
 

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Teehee Von Nguyen

GMT -5 is Eastern Standard time(EST). The current time in the EST is 9:46.

When we skip and hour after the clock rolls forward on MArch 4th. That is when the time will be correct.

Meh, I guess they just don't like daylight savings time on this site.

Gotta either be from A Saskatchewan, or Coral Harbour. Those are the only two places in North America I know that don't like watching the sun set after work...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Threads: 142,210, Posts: 3,115,089, Members: 23,165, Active Members: 3,399

Something I noticed. Sosuave is a tiny community...

Are there others intelligent beings out there like us?
 

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Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
...like us?
Christ I hope not. :p
 

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i just wanna whip it out and penetrate you over an dover again. von neuen. aite. just penetrate. deep and ugghh ahhh

god that was wrong
 

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Originally posted by dirtyvibe
i just wanna whip it out and penetrate you over an dover again. von neuen. aite. just penetrate. deep and ugghh ahhh

god that was wrong
people call me weird...
 

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no, ethnomethodologist, we're certainly unique...for a start we can notice stuff about forums n that.

Originally posted by dirtyvibe

god that was wrong
and yet it felt so right.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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