"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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EFFORT

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Stay away from bodybuilding.com and save yourself wasted time.

Instead go to Ironaddicts.com, Intensemuscle.com
 

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EFFORT said:
Stay away from bodybuilding.com and save yourself wasted time.

Instead go to Ironaddicts.com, Intensemuscle.com
ditto.

exrx.net is useful as a compendium of exercises, though you shouldn't take the animated demonstrations too literally.
 

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I keep hearing people say to stay away from Bodybuilding.com without giving any reasons. I've used the site for supplements and general nutrition articles for years without any problems. Actually, much of the good advice that's given in this forum can be substantiated on Bodybuilding.com.
 

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It's a problem of sorting wheat from chaff... especially in the forums.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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