Just saying

[sosousage]

I didnt touch pc/any games in last 6 or more years, its clear to me that they bring temporary pleasure but are generally waste of time (tbh most people my age are playing everyday).

games are like movies or some other addicting 'filler' of your free time.

soo that being said i have sex today with some slooth (yes we have done it before np) but i prefer watch porn and play games.

(i play since 2 weeks, i thought i wont get addicted so i downloaded a game but i love exploiting it (connecting strong things in your playstyle and eliminating the weak ones to win vs others) and competing with other players), its quicker than travel there 30min, 30min back, and spend there 2h lulz.

sex is just so irrelevant to me atm i had time where ireally really wantex sex and porn to me was just something like weak drug or small dose of drug (barely works and only makes you want more) now since recently i just prefer towatch porn...

its weird, but im canceling the sex to play game. :-D

 

[Spaz]

U r one interesting fella sosousage that's for sure.

I enjoy reading ur threads

 

[Serenity]

its clear to me that they bring temporary pleasure but are generally waste of time

Uhm, welcome to life?

Nothing is permanent, anything you do will eventually be forever forgotten, so what is really a waste of time? That really depends on your goal. Many men on this site (and elsewhere) worship an ideal, an imagined way it's supposed to be. Like that particular way is the right way and anything else is a waste of time. This is a narrow view, the philosophy around this is SOOO much deeper than a simple ideal.

I dislike when it's preached that you should do this and do that, like stay away from video games, don't drink, don't ever fap and ALWAYS game women at every opportunity. It's a very restrictive way to live and has evidently (through posts) shown that several guys on here got absolutely burnt out from it (myself included). Incessantly gaming chicks become as depressive as incessantly playing video games and fapping all day, every day. It's the monotony that kills the spirit, the chase of the one "perfect" ideal.

I found the solution to be freeing myself from an ideal and seek variation. I can spend a few days on a video game, then I want to do something else and go do that. Nothing is a waste of time if you'd love to do it, it's only a waste if you're doing something that brings misery.

Look at time as a simple line, the past, the present and the future. Many live their lives in misery in the present for a very long time imagining happiness somewhere in the future, meanwhile the present moves into the future and accumulates a large gap of misery. Imagine you're old and looking back on your life, you've finally found peace and happiness but you don't have much longer to live. You look back at your life and realize it was mostly sh!t because instead of trying to find it in every passing moment you spent all those moments chasing the future.

We live now! While it is not a bad idea to take some precautions as to not lose your happiness in the future, most of the effort should be spent trying to find the good in the moment. Games and movies isn't a waste of time, it will only bring you regret if you didn't do much else in your life. You don't have to permanently choose activities, women or games/movies for the rest of your life, you can in fact alternate between them through time and enjoy many different facets of life.

An activity isn't always or never, there is no dilemma, you don't have to make a permanent choice. Release your identity, you don't have to be either the "guy who plays games and watch porn" or the "guy who lays chicks", you don't have to choose. In fact it's better to let go of such self-identity, let go of the ego and you can be anyone and do whatever you'd want.

Fvck trying to fit into a box, don't imprison yourself through expectations.

 

[marmel75]

Low T.

 

[Serenity]

Low T.

Read my comment above.

Consider this: [ideal not fitting into], reason is low T.

You're projecting an ideal, you say "low T" in an attempt to appeal to a common insecurity among men, that they're not men enough if they do X, Y or Z. It's a dirty manipulation tactic, contains zero useful information and you don't know sh!t about the actual testosterone levels without a medical examination.

Your logic is deeply flawed.

 

[marmel75]

Read my comment above.

Consider this: [ideal not fitting into], reason is low T.

You're projecting an ideal, you say "low T" in an attempt to appeal to a common insecurity among men, that they're not men enough if they do X, Y or Z. It's a dirty manipulation tactic, contains zero useful information and you don't know sh!t about the actual testosterone levels without a medical examination.

Your logic is deeply flawed.

What man with a normal T level is uninterested in sex?

 

[HankHill]

Hmm in my case when I get regular sex (typically in a LTR) I didn't want it all the time, if the sex was really good I didn't want it again for several days but if the sex was meh or just a BJ etc then I'd want it more often. Also, when I can get sex on tap I tend to not care for it as much, I get busy with my hobbies etc. but when I don't get it I lose interest in my hobbies and start chasing tail harder.

 

[Serenity]

What man with a normal T level is uninterested in sex?

The one who has lost the fear of not getting any, has gotten enough to make it "nothing special" and thus is more inclined to pursue something more exciting. Constantly craving sex isn't really a trait of well balanced men anyways.

There's a difference in playing video games because you gave up on sex and playing video games because that's simply just what you'd like at the moment. The former is escapism, substituting pvssy with interactive entertainment, while the latter is not. Just because an activity is often used as escapism doesn't mean you can logically conclude that it is always escapism to do said activity.

Hmm in my case when I get regular sex (typically in a LTR) I didn't want it all the time, if the sex was really good I didn't want it again for several days but if the sex was meh or just a BJ etc then I'd want it more often. Also, when I can get sex on tap I tend to not care for it as much, I get busy with my hobbies etc. but when I don't get it I lose interest in my hobbies and start chasing tail harder.

This is a natural example of what I'm talking about. When you have abundance it becomes nothing special, when it's rare you want what is hard to obtain. We value things based on rarity, if we drown in pvssy it becomes less valuable then let's say video games, maybe because it's been a while since you've played any.

So it isn't a reliable predictor of T levels. You seem to correlate hunger and neverending appetite for sex to high T level, I would rather correlate it to mental dysfunction and desperation.

The most successful guys, who or rather how are they? Actively pursuing their next lay or are they just chilling and not paying too much mind to it? Who do you think women put most value on? The guy who will serve them d!ck on demand or the one who's so satisfied with sex it will take greater effort to convince him to bother with it? Based on how we (people in general) place value it sure isn't the guy making his d!ck cheap.

This is really old news and is repeated MANY MANY times in the DJ Bible and countless posts through this forums history. It hasn't changed...