"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just saw the most AFC thing ever!

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I was just chillin, watchin TV, and saw a perfect example of what NOT to do with women.

Dude #1: I heard it's HB9's birthday tomorrow, and I hear she is really into Kangaroos. Maybe I'll get her a stuffed one (VERY AFC THING TO SAY)

Dude #2: That's a good idea...

Next day

HB9: (Holding a huge stuffed kangaroo, gives D2 the look and says) Thanks!


This is just one more example seen on Television where guys have to do something to get the girls approval. THIS IS NOT THE WAY TO ACT, just a reminder!:D :D :D :D :D :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you've been in a relationship with a girl for a couple months I don't see that scenario as a problem.

She'll probably take it that you listen to her. Girls like it when they know guys are listening to them.
 
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Originally posted by iHatePants
If you've been in a relationship with a girl for a couple months I don't see that scenario as a problem.

She'll probably take it that you listen to her. Girls like it when they know guys are listening to them.
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note she said thanks to dude #2
 
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Did you even read the post? I know that girls like it when you listen, how do you think I keep 2 girls coming back? IT WAS A TV COMMERCIAL!!!!!!!! It was 2 dudes who didn't even know the chick, the one was being total AFC, and the other was copying his behavior!
 
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You want to see AFC's?

Watch the TV show "Cheaters" and how a guy will forgive his g/f after she has been caught cheating on him.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hell Yeah, cheaters has the biggest AFCs I have ever seen, and to think, I used to say I would do the same thing in that situation. Thank god for sosuave!!!
 
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Speaking of the show Cheaters. I'm watching an episode right now where the guy's chick is cheating on him with another girl lol.
 
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Originally posted by ketostix
Speaking of the show Cheaters. I'm watching an episode right now where the guy's chick is cheating on him with another girl lol.
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i wouldnt call that cheatin, id friggen join in
 
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Guys, we dont call that cheating, we call that let me in or let me watch! Your woman getting with another woman is not cheating, it is mereley opeing the door to more fun!
 
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