"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just saw the most AFC thing ever!

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I was just chillin, watchin TV, and saw a perfect example of what NOT to do with women.

Dude #1: I heard it's HB9's birthday tomorrow, and I hear she is really into Kangaroos. Maybe I'll get her a stuffed one (VERY AFC THING TO SAY)

Dude #2: That's a good idea...

Next day

HB9: (Holding a huge stuffed kangaroo, gives D2 the look and says) Thanks!


This is just one more example seen on Television where guys have to do something to get the girls approval. THIS IS NOT THE WAY TO ACT, just a reminder!:D :D :D :D :D :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you've been in a relationship with a girl for a couple months I don't see that scenario as a problem.

She'll probably take it that you listen to her. Girls like it when they know guys are listening to them.
 
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Originally posted by iHatePants
If you've been in a relationship with a girl for a couple months I don't see that scenario as a problem.

She'll probably take it that you listen to her. Girls like it when they know guys are listening to them.
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note she said thanks to dude #2
 
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Did you even read the post? I know that girls like it when you listen, how do you think I keep 2 girls coming back? IT WAS A TV COMMERCIAL!!!!!!!! It was 2 dudes who didn't even know the chick, the one was being total AFC, and the other was copying his behavior!
 
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You want to see AFC's?

Watch the TV show "Cheaters" and how a guy will forgive his g/f after she has been caught cheating on him.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hell Yeah, cheaters has the biggest AFCs I have ever seen, and to think, I used to say I would do the same thing in that situation. Thank god for sosuave!!!
 
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Speaking of the show Cheaters. I'm watching an episode right now where the guy's chick is cheating on him with another girl lol.
 
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Originally posted by ketostix
Speaking of the show Cheaters. I'm watching an episode right now where the guy's chick is cheating on him with another girl lol.
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i wouldnt call that cheatin, id friggen join in
 
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Guys, we dont call that cheating, we call that let me in or let me watch! Your woman getting with another woman is not cheating, it is mereley opeing the door to more fun!
 
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