"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Krak

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So this girl I've been talking to blows me off for a date, oh well. After she tells me she can't make it she texts me, "Just remember, you love me!" So I send this reply, "Oh really, is that how it is? I thought it was the other way around. Don't worry, you don't have to admit it, I love me too."

I was thinking this might have been too ****y of a response but then she replied to me "Lol...yah yah..." I took that as a good sign but not sure.

Now I don't think I have said or done anything that would give her this impression. I plan to back off for a while and see what she does. Do you guys think I handled it well? or do you think I'm LJBF and next her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wiesman44

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I would have just ignored the text, waited 3-4 days, and call her back, while not even mentioning the fact that she blew me off 4 days prior.
 

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Krak said:
So this girl I've been talking to blows me off for a date, oh well. After she tells me she can't make it she texts me, "Just remember, you love me!" So I send this reply, "Oh really, is that how it is? I thought it was the other way around. Don't worry, you don't have to admit it, I love me too."

I was thinking this might have been too ****y of a response but then she replied to me "Lol...yah yah..." I took that as a good sign but not sure.

Now I don't think I have said or done anything that would give her this impression. I plan to back off for a while and see what she does. Do you guys think I handled it well? or do you think I'm LJBF and next her?
seems like a pretty sick response to me...after that i'd just sit back and see what she does.
 

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Need more info to be totally sure what's going on. For instance, it is ok for a girl to break a date if her Mother was just rushed to the hospital - but somehow I doubt that it what happened.

Women don't break dates with guys that they are into.

Your txt response was ok - but it probably doesn't matter. It might come across as angry or needy. I would have ignored, or said "ha,ha", or ...(would need to know more).

I would absolutely start looking for other women. If she called me I would probably say something like "I am a busy guy, my rule is that I don't make dates with women who blow me off - but I do feel bad that I didn't warn you of my rule before. I guess I could spare an hour and give you one last chance and let you meet me for a cup of coffee or a drink." (I have used this and it works) ...but that it just me.

You should probably just next her.
 

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Neg hit...the power lies within the neg hit on a HB..trust me ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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