Glassguy
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Tough situation but you did the right thing. First the issue with her last week, now this. She will either be mad at you but respect you or she will tolerate you and be disrespectful if you let her continue to stay with you. The writing was on the wall and you made the right choice to give her the boot.Well, as the OP I should make an update to my own thread. I gave the GF the boot this morning over new developments.
Started with a fight last night. First off, in "Anything Else" I posted a couple days ago that I may be moving to Montana later this year for a job. When the opportunity came up last week I told the GF about it and the first thing she said was "You know I want to move somewhere warm and Montana is cold!". I said well "I like Montana and if I get the job the bus is leaving with or without you". She called me selfish. I tried to talk to her with logic and reason but she ignored, kept calling me selfish and not thinking of her.
So this morning I said "See you later love you" before leaving for work. She said "Bye!" I said "No love for me today?". She said "No because you are going to another State anyway and you dont care about me or my feelings". I said "OK, I guess we are roommates now then, that works for me". I left. She texted me 60 seconds later and blasted me with a bunch of emo stuff. I said "You might as well save it cuz with the lie you told me the other day and calling me selfish and then your attitude when I left for work today, we are done. ". SHe went to her son's house. Coming to get her stuff on Sunday. Nnnnnext...
You will soon have a new area in Montana and a fresh start.
You can be whoever you want to be which is a good thing.
Own the opportunity and dont look back.
As an alpha the first rule is to put yourself first. Do what's best for you. That you are doing and I commend you on that. Without a strong frame and high standards, a man has nothing.
Best of luck. If you ever need to chat, feel free to PM me.