"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just Played My Top Card With The GF

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Since I blocked the ex-GF phone and don't have any social media, I hadn't had any updates. Until today, I'm at work and get an Email from her on my phone to my Gmail account: "I heard through the 'grapevine' you are already seeing somebody else. I know how fast you move. Have fun with your new girlfriend lol" So yes, I do have two women in the bullpen but I haven't gone out with or touched another woman since her and I broke up a week ago. I think she is trying to get me to say "No I don't have anyone else", which I am not going to do. Funny sh|t! Of all the women I have dumped I don't recall a message like this before from an Ex right after a breakup.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Since I blocked the ex-GF phone and don't have any social media, I hadn't had any updates. Until today, I'm at work and get an Email from her on my phone to my Gmail account: "I heard through the 'grapevine' you are already seeing somebody else. I know how fast you move. Have fun with your new girlfriend lol" So yes, I do have two women in the bullpen but I haven't gone out with or touched another woman since her and I broke up a week ago. I think she is trying to get me to say "No I don't have anyone else", which I am not going to do. Funny sh|t! Of all the women I have dumped I don't recall a message like this before from an Ex right after a breakup.
She is testing the waters. You broke up. You are free to do whatever and whomever you want to do.

You already know this but I am going to reiterate:

The best response is no response
 
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