Just not that attracted to her any more

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Let that poor girl know her vagina stinks
How? She’s always smelled my **** before sucking it which I found weird, I’m always clean anyway and she’s said couple weeks back “your **** always smells so clean”

She’s smelled her own disgusting vag on my **** before while we banged and didn’t wanna suck it. She knows when it smells. I think that she thinks it’s normal? My ex NEVER smelled. Sara never smelled even the morning after we’d been out drinking, she had BO sometimes under her armpits and a musty smell, but the vag was always clean. I’ve stopped going down on Soph because I refuse to eat smelly vag.

How do you bring up a smelly vag situation? I’m thinking that next time I smell it i say to her m “your pvssy smells weird what’s that smell?”

What do u guys think? I’ve never done it before.
 

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How? She’s always smelled my **** before sucking it which I found weird, I’m always clean anyway and she’s said couple weeks back “your **** always smells so clean”

She’s smelled her own disgusting vag on my **** before while we banged and didn’t wanna suck it. She knows when it smells. I think that she thinks it’s normal? My ex NEVER smelled. Sara never smelled even the morning after we’d been out drinking, she had BO sometimes under her armpits and a musty smell, but the vag was always clean. I’ve stopped going down on Soph because I refuse to eat smelly vag.

How do you bring up a smelly vag situation? I’m thinking that next time I smell it i say to her m “your pvssy smells weird what’s that smell?”

What do u guys think? I’ve never done it before.
Could ask if shes sick because her scent is off. Probably has bacterial infection.
 

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so interesting, this girl is treating you with respect and valuing you as a person and you are not attracted to her, but with people like Sarah who's all drama, all push pull you're heavily attracted and pine to invest yourself in someone like that
Well tbh I’ve limited Sara to one word replies and sincere she moved out I haven’t gone out of my way to keep in touch so we are about nearly 3 months limited contact and I feel nothing for her. At the time it was addictive though. Also you’re right about my mum I think subconsciously it’s made me very selfish and withdrawn where my feelings are concerned, very erratic and unstable with my emotions and I don’t give myself 100% fully to any woman.

I also agree that fear and uncertainty attracts people not just women, we want what we can’t have kinda thing.
 

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Could ask if shes sick because her scent is off. Probably has bacterial infection.
It’s been on and off since we met but she always smells nice and she is a hair and beauty specialist but maybe she isn’t washing herself properly down there? It’s not fishy at all, but that very strong not very nice vagina smell.
 

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My main plate Sophie is not doing it for me sexually anymore. She’s actually giving me blowj0bs at will (the best I’ve had), cooking for me, being supportive and everything I need right now. We’re basically a couple.

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However this relationship is running it’s course sadly, I need something exotic and exciting. I need new plates.
I know I'm hardly the epitome of a DJ but I see a big dissonance here from a logical standpoint mate. Your relationship shouldn't be "running it's course" if you're getting all the things you want out of it.

I think in a way the amount of success you're having with women is a negative thing, as silly as a it sounds. It seems very easy for you to get into new sexual relationships to a point you don't seem to value the ones you already have.

Couple that with the hedonistic adrenaline junkie tendencies (are you still keeping up the drugs and partying too?) and I think you're creating an environment for yourself where a stable LTR just isn't ever going to work.

What will you do one day when the fast times, easy sex and plate spinning gets old? Because one day you'll get bored of that too, and you'll look back to girls like Sophie and wonder why you were so quick to move on to Generic Quick Sexytimes Girl #5012.

My two cents anyway.
 

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It’s been on and off since we met but she always smells nice and she is a hair and beauty specialist but maybe she isn’t washing herself properly down there? It’s not fishy at all, but that very strong not very nice vagina smell.
Im trying to say it in a nice way... Hard to believe when she smells it on you shes not alarmed.
 

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I know I'm hardly the epitome of a DJ but I see a big dissonance here from a logical standpoint mate. Your relationship shouldn't be "running it's course" if you're getting all the things you want out of it.

I think in a way the amount of success you're having with women is a negative thing, as silly as a it sounds. It seems very easy for you to get into new sexual relationships to a point you don't seem to value the ones you already have.

Couple that with the hedonistic adrenaline junkie tendencies (are you still keeping up the drugs and partying too?) and I think you're creating an environment for yourself where a stable LTR just isn't ever going to work.

What will you do one day when the fast times, easy sex and plate spinning gets old? Because one day you'll get bored of that too, and you'll look back to girls like Sophie and wonder why you were so quick to move on to Generic Quick Sexytimes Girl #5012.

My two cents anyway.
I’ve stopped the drink, drugs and partying for a good 3-4 months now. I still have a drink now and then and I did some drugs at a festival last month but that’s it.

Sophie is just not physically that attractive to me, I look at her and she’s looks old, more than she did last year (she’s just turned 30 so maybe that has something to do with it).

If a gorgeous 25 year old behaved like this towards me I would LTR her instantly. It’s hard to find them though, most of them can’t cook, don’t have their own money/career/car or are not emotionally mature enough to treat you like a king, that usually comes with experience and training. I’ll keep searching for sure.
 

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Just keep her around as a friend. It doesn't have to be all or nothing. You dont have to play boyfriend with her, she already knows you talk to other women. She just wants you to be honest about it. I don't think she'll go anywhere if you keep it real with her

Just touch base with her every so often. You might need her help one day with something outside of just sex
 

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She’s smelled her own disgusting vag on my **** before while we banged and didn’t wanna suck it. She knows when it smells.
lol I would of said something right then. Like you smell that too? That's why u don't wanna give me head huh. you know that's coming from you right
 

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It’s been on and off since we met but she always smells nice and she is a hair and beauty specialist but maybe she isn’t washing herself properly down there? It’s not fishy at all, but that very strong not very nice vagina smell.
maybe she has herpes? Hsv1 (as you call her) is still in the picture as is Spanish and I assume you’re having sex with all of them, and they are probably having sex with other men too because they’re plates so...

It is the gift that keeps on giving. If she smelled ok before and now doesn’t that could be a flag that she has an STD.
 

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@Murkserious it's perfectly okay to mention that sometimes she smells not so fresh down there, just do it with a spirit of "I'm confused, why would it smell differently on different days?" (Become an actor)

Vag odor is affected by body temp/sweating, what time of the month it is, what she ate today/last night, infection sure, water consumption, etc.

Just act confused when you mention it. Throw in an "I'm confused because I think my bo always smells the same, why does your badge smell different?

It's also perfectly okay to say sometimes you are turned off by the odor, I don't want to go down on her, just do it gently and with the spirit of "let's solve this"
 

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Just keep her around as a friend. It doesn't have to be all or nothing. You dont have to play boyfriend with her, she already knows you talk to other women. She just wants you to be honest about it. I don't think she'll go anywhere if you keep it real with her

Just touch base with her every so often. You might need her help one day with something outside of just sex
This is so true which is why we’ve kept seeing each other, sometimes we go get food then come back to mine place, chill, play cards, talk and joke. She wants more though. Dunno if anyone remembers but I made a thread about 14 months ago this girl came to my house with her friend banging on the door “I know you’re in there” just because I flaked on a date and ignored her texts. She’s a bit obsessive with me. I don’t think I can dial it back as she cares too much.

maybe she has herpes? Hsv1 (as you call her) is still in the picture as is Spanish and I assume you’re having sex with all of them, and they are probably having sex with other men too because they’re plates so...

It is the gift that keeps on giving. If she smelled ok before and now doesn’t that could be a flag that she has an STD.
No, she doesn’t have hsv1, I’ve only slept with that girl once, protected, and you get a break out in the first couple weeks of transmission I have a clean bill of health. Sophie always randomly smelled funny down there for about a year now. Not std related we’ve both had about 4 checks each I go regularly because of my bareback cream pie adventures.

@sazc great advice I’ll get my acting game on
 

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This is so true which is why we’ve kept seeing each other, sometimes we go get food then come back to mine place, chill, play cards, talk and joke. She wants more though. Dunno if anyone remembers but I made a thread about 14 months ago this girl came to my house with her friend banging on the door “I know you’re in there” just because I flaked on a date and ignored her texts. She’s a bit obsessive with me. I don’t think I can dial it back as she cares too much.



No, she doesn’t have hsv1, I’ve only slept with that girl once, protected, and you get a break out in the first couple weeks of transmission I have a clean bill of health. Sophie always randomly smelled funny down there for about a year now. Not std related we’ve both had about 4 checks each I go regularly because of my bareback cream pie adventures.

@sazc great advice I’ll get my acting game on
Could be something hormonal then. Or something she’s eating.
 

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@Murkserious you'll never lose of you go in with the spirit of "I'm confused about this, can you explain it to me"
 

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tell every male you know and her friends too that her vag stinks so they dont try to get laid with her
 

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This is so true which is why we’ve kept seeing each other, sometimes we go get food then come back to mine place, chill, play cards, talk and joke. She wants more though. Dunno if anyone remembers but I made a thread about 14 months ago this girl came to my house with her friend banging on the door “I know you’re in there” just because I flaked on a date and ignored her texts. She’s a bit obsessive with me. I don’t think I can dial it back as she cares too much.



No, she doesn’t have hsv1, I’ve only slept with that girl once, protected, and you get a break out in the first couple weeks of transmission I have a clean bill of health. Sophie always randomly smelled funny down there for about a year now. Not std related we’ve both had about 4 checks each I go regularly because of my bareback cream pie adventures.

@sazc great advice I’ll get my acting game on
I had a foul high powered fishy/shytty smell on a lady i was messing with. Bacterial vaginotis. With the proper meds it can be remedied. The smell is so powefully obscene itll turn you off.
 
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