“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Just met a cute Polish girl reading a book by a lake

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I spotted her quite early on and went in her direction to find a spot to swim close enough to be close but not too close to be a creep (she was in a bikini).

Went for a swim in my underwear and she was locked onto me the entire time (I have a solid ass). After getting into the water I mentioned to her that it was kinda cold. She said she'd be in like an hour ago. After swimming around for a while I got to shore and she mentioned she was impressed by how long I was in there. Started chatting and chatted for maybe 15 minutes or so. I think she's older than me and she mentioned that I looked young, but her guess of my age was younger than I actually am, so she was underestimating it.

Got digits, she lives in the same neighborhood and apparently hangs out by the same lake. When should I set up to meet her? Is the wait 3 days thing still true? Some context: we live in a "suburb" type of neighborhood where it's mostly older people and families, not so much younger singles.
 

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I spotted her quite early on and went in her direction to find a spot to swim close enough to be close but not too close to be a creep (she was in a bikini).

Went for a swim in my underwear and she was locked onto me the entire time (I have a solid ass). After getting into the water I mentioned to her that it was kinda cold. She said she'd be in like an hour ago. After swimming around for a while I got to shore and she mentioned she was impressed by how long I was in there. Started chatting and chatted for maybe 15 minutes or so. I think she's older than me and she mentioned that I looked young, but her guess of my age was younger than I actually am, so she was underestimating it.

Got digits, she lives in the same neighborhood and apparently hangs out by the same lake. When should I set up to meet her? Is the wait 3 days thing still true? Some context: we live in a "suburb" type of neighborhood where it's mostly older people and families, not so much younger singles.
Certainly not the next day.

Dont think it matters that much.

3 days is good tho. U could do 2, but 3 probably better.
 

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Certainly not the next day.

Dont think it matters that much.

3 days is good tho. U could do 2, but 3 probably better.
Doesn't allow me to use the weekend though. Maybe 2 is good, say something on Saturday.
 

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I spotted her quite early on and went in her direction to find a spot to swim close enough to be close but not too close to be a creep (she was in a bikini).

Went for a swim in my underwear and she was locked onto me the entire time (I have a solid ass). After getting into the water I mentioned to her that it was kinda cold. She said she'd be in like an hour ago. After swimming around for a while I got to shore and she mentioned she was impressed by how long I was in there. Started chatting and chatted for maybe 15 minutes or so. I think she's older than me and she mentioned that I looked young, but her guess of my age was younger than I actually am, so she was underestimating it.

Got digits, she lives in the same neighborhood and apparently hangs out by the same lake. When should I set up to meet her? Is the wait 3 days thing still true? Some context: we live in a "suburb" type of neighborhood where it's mostly older people and families, not so much younger singles.
Don't overthink it, man. DO NOT wait 3 days, that is mindblowingly stupid. Not sure why some guys recommend the whole 24-48-72 hrs thing. You got the number and approached her, that is the hardest part. So good on ya mate. Her first impression of you is critical and she obviously noticed you. You got the number, carry on with that momentum later on the day. Just do not text more than a few sentences before you set up a date with her.

Conclusion: Strike while the iron is hot. Get her 1 on 1 face to face and just have fun man. Don't overthink it or you won't enjoy yourself as much.

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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