sailorgirl
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just lost the love of my life
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nixonhater
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Chill out, unwind a little, loosen up.
this could be a long hard lesson for you
i know it sucks, i know it hurts. but why are you posting here? its trouble girls like you we're trying to learn to NEXT ASAP! the only advice i have is to work on your issues, take your medication, show him more actions than just words, and maybe that will solve things!? but don't count on it, as he might already have had enough of your drama and NEXTed you. good luck.
-jlc
i know it sucks, i know it hurts. but why are you posting here? its trouble girls like you we're trying to learn to NEXT ASAP! the only advice i have is to work on your issues, take your medication, show him more actions than just words, and maybe that will solve things!? but don't count on it, as he might already have had enough of your drama and NEXTed you. good luck.
-jlc
Ser_i
Don Juan
there isn't much info to work with...
but you have to try to remain calm, as nixonhater said.. unwind a little, talk about what you want to talk about.
how long have you been together ?
but you have to try to remain calm, as nixonhater said.. unwind a little, talk about what you want to talk about.
how long have you been together ?
FlyGuy
Master Don Juan
The only thing you can do now is
a) Give him and yourself some time alone to think things through
b) Work on your issues
At this point you've blown it. If it was meant to be he will come back to you, otherwise there is nothing you can do to get him back. Either way, you will need to resolve your emotional problems before getting back into a relationship.
a) Give him and yourself some time alone to think things through
b) Work on your issues
At this point you've blown it. If it was meant to be he will come back to you, otherwise there is nothing you can do to get him back. Either way, you will need to resolve your emotional problems before getting back into a relationship.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.