"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When your woman disrespects you in any way, "she knows" you want to say something, and if you don't you are deemed as less of a man, and that is because you are!!!

She didnt let "fear" stop her from disrespecting you, even though "she knows" you can whip her azz, but you let "fear" stop you from speaking your mind.

Always, always deal with disrespect when disrespect happens, and always keep your cool, and if she really is acting the fool in public let her know "we will deal with this later, but now I am leaving because you are acting like an animal", then leave. Trust me on this one, telling someone they are acting like an animal will usually get them to calm down really fast.

But know every time you act in a submissive manner "she knows" and you are becoming more afc'ish in her eyes every time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why I don't disagree that you should let disrespect go without an appropriate response (and by appropriate I mean something that makes your point but doesn't escalate the situation), who gives a flying fark what she thinks of you anyway?

Let her be delusional. Her problem, not yours. If she's talking down about you to her friends, that says more about her than you.
 

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Who cares what she is saying to "her" friends, Im talking about personal in your face disrespect. Too many guys just let it go when they really dont want too, and you should but after you have dealt with it.

God never told a single man that you were put here to care about a woman's feelings more then your own.
 

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Originally posted by earthshyne
Why I don't disagree that you should let disrespect go without an appropriate response (and by appropriate I mean something that makes your point but doesn't escalate the situation), who gives a flying fark what she thinks of you anyway?

Let her be delusional. Her problem, not yours. If she's talking down about you to her friends, that says more about her than you.
You don't get it. Royal is talking about a woman disrespecting you in public. Let's say your sitting at a resturant and you go to the bathroom and you come back. Another player is there getting your girls phone number.

That is disrespect. Your saying who cares? Your saying who cares what she thinks of YOU?

Are you saying that you can be with a woman who thinks your nothing but a tool? She uses you for someone to take her out to dinner when the real men are not available? And that would be ok for you?

You do want to care what a woman thinks of you. Because you want to keep your womans eyes on you. If you lose her respect then you will lose her to another man who will not take her shyt.

When women give shyt tests they need to be delt with right away!
 

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Originally posted by MrHarris
You don't get it. Royal is talking about a woman disrespecting you in public. Let's say your sitting at a resturant and you go to the bathroom and you come back. Another player is there getting your girls phone number.

That is disrespect. Your saying who cares? Your saying who cares what she thinks of YOU?
That's why I put in the caveat of the appropriate response.

Besides, if she's involved in a relationship with you but disrespects you like that, she's obviously teetering on the edge of the "next" zone.

So, I'm not saying "who cares" in the sense that a disrespectful attitude is acceptable. I'm saying "who cares" when she's either not part, or now out, of your life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by earthshyne
That's why I put in the caveat of the appropriate response.

Besides, if she's involved in a relationship with you but disrespects you like that, she's obviously teetering on the edge of the "next" zone.

So, I'm not saying "who cares" in the sense that a disrespectful attitude is acceptable. I'm saying "who cares" when she's either not part, or now out, of your life.
This is wisdom here, as the man said once she is gone screw her, it just means some new chick is going to step in to become a star.
 

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Originally posted by MrHarris


When women give shyt tests they need to be delt with right away!
This man always brings wisdom!!!!
 

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Agree. You care that she respects you and that you are to be respected.
 
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