"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When your woman disrespects you in any way, "she knows" you want to say something, and if you don't you are deemed as less of a man, and that is because you are!!!

She didnt let "fear" stop her from disrespecting you, even though "she knows" you can whip her azz, but you let "fear" stop you from speaking your mind.

Always, always deal with disrespect when disrespect happens, and always keep your cool, and if she really is acting the fool in public let her know "we will deal with this later, but now I am leaving because you are acting like an animal", then leave. Trust me on this one, telling someone they are acting like an animal will usually get them to calm down really fast.

But know every time you act in a submissive manner "she knows" and you are becoming more afc'ish in her eyes every time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why I don't disagree that you should let disrespect go without an appropriate response (and by appropriate I mean something that makes your point but doesn't escalate the situation), who gives a flying fark what she thinks of you anyway?

Let her be delusional. Her problem, not yours. If she's talking down about you to her friends, that says more about her than you.
 

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Who cares what she is saying to "her" friends, Im talking about personal in your face disrespect. Too many guys just let it go when they really dont want too, and you should but after you have dealt with it.

God never told a single man that you were put here to care about a woman's feelings more then your own.
 

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Originally posted by earthshyne
Why I don't disagree that you should let disrespect go without an appropriate response (and by appropriate I mean something that makes your point but doesn't escalate the situation), who gives a flying fark what she thinks of you anyway?

Let her be delusional. Her problem, not yours. If she's talking down about you to her friends, that says more about her than you.
You don't get it. Royal is talking about a woman disrespecting you in public. Let's say your sitting at a resturant and you go to the bathroom and you come back. Another player is there getting your girls phone number.

That is disrespect. Your saying who cares? Your saying who cares what she thinks of YOU?

Are you saying that you can be with a woman who thinks your nothing but a tool? She uses you for someone to take her out to dinner when the real men are not available? And that would be ok for you?

You do want to care what a woman thinks of you. Because you want to keep your womans eyes on you. If you lose her respect then you will lose her to another man who will not take her shyt.

When women give shyt tests they need to be delt with right away!
 

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Originally posted by MrHarris
You don't get it. Royal is talking about a woman disrespecting you in public. Let's say your sitting at a resturant and you go to the bathroom and you come back. Another player is there getting your girls phone number.

That is disrespect. Your saying who cares? Your saying who cares what she thinks of YOU?
That's why I put in the caveat of the appropriate response.

Besides, if she's involved in a relationship with you but disrespects you like that, she's obviously teetering on the edge of the "next" zone.

So, I'm not saying "who cares" in the sense that a disrespectful attitude is acceptable. I'm saying "who cares" when she's either not part, or now out, of your life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by earthshyne
That's why I put in the caveat of the appropriate response.

Besides, if she's involved in a relationship with you but disrespects you like that, she's obviously teetering on the edge of the "next" zone.

So, I'm not saying "who cares" in the sense that a disrespectful attitude is acceptable. I'm saying "who cares" when she's either not part, or now out, of your life.
This is wisdom here, as the man said once she is gone screw her, it just means some new chick is going to step in to become a star.
 

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Originally posted by MrHarris


When women give shyt tests they need to be delt with right away!
This man always brings wisdom!!!!
 

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Agree. You care that she respects you and that you are to be respected.
 
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