"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just how horny are girls?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Some of you state "they are as horny as us(men)" but if that were the case I guarantee every single 1 of us would be getting laid immediately & on a daily basis.... your thoughts on this?
 

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Women lack control over their hornyness.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's all right........ if u have a good time!
Think of it as a passive horniness rather than the male active horniness. In other words, they will be as horny as any guy if somebody finds them that can act towards them in the right way.

But what do you mean 'as horny'? Do you mean are they horny as often? Or do they get as excited about sex? Two different questions...
 

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Horny as often is what I was referring to & I think your right about woman having standards which men don't lol
 

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Of course women have standards. They would look like slvts otherwise and I highly doubt they want that.

As far as horny goes, they can be as horny as men under the right circumstances. Just last night this girl came over my house for no apparent reason. Then after a little escalation on my part, she was ready to go.

Here's the important part. She finally tells me that she has a bf, but that she's really horny and wanted me.

Nuff said.
 

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I think women are as horny as men, but because of society they can't express it. People will look at them as sluts.
I think Proselytiser has a good point about the passive hornyess.
 

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Ya but how about when a girl throws it all over you it de-values her vayjayjay but then u got to put up with the other prudes who make u feel like a predator lool
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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