"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just Have Fun..

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"Check the watch nigga it's my time." - Young Jeezy

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I've been playing it up sort of. I was hooking up with a girl when it turned 2007, it was a great way to begin the year.

but the thing is she told me "me and this guy are close at my school so don't tell anyone." I laughed and said ok.

She calls me the next day and we talk for a bit. I was thinking I had to talk to her a lot during the first week to eliminate this guy, WRONG!

At the *high school* level it's all about having fun, you gotta just call girls when you want to hangout. The day before works well too.

But when you make it seem "serious," the girl gets scared and doesn't want to hangout.

You just want to be getting girls for fun, there's no pressure believe me.

I've already hooked up with three girls this year, yeah.

It's all fun and games.

The one thing guys forget when trying to pick up girls is that when your anxious and always double checking, triple checking that their hangout with them it screams desperation.

Girls dont like desperate guys, they want to believe that you have a choice of girls.

I had a girl tell me once "I've hooked up with a bunch of popular guys... *starts listing names."

I'm laughing at her and she finally says "Do you want to hook up?"

exactly.

And being direct with a girl DOES NOT work all the time.

let me give you an example...

I'm calling this girl and tell her straight up "Yo Im gonna pick you up at 6pm and were going to hangout alright."

she replies "What!? you never told me beforehand im hanging out with my best friend and going to the game. do u want me to call you later?"

Ah i'm like ah whatever.

sometimes girls will flake like this and u just gotta act chill. But eventually you have to push forward and just make her hangout because there unsure what they want.

for example the girl i hooked up with on new years that was close with a guy at her school.

i told her "Look I just really want to get to know you to see how it'd work out. If you don't want the same then just tell me I don't care."

We hung out again.

It all works out ... you gotta push forwards and pull back at the right times...

It's all a game and it should be fun.

You want to be hooking up with as many girls as possible try not to focus on one girl because they notice that sh1t.

so just have fun and good luck

*note: don't hook up with really slutty girls that everyone makes fun/ hates because girls think lower of u for it*****
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Void said:
"Check the watch nigga it's my time." - Young Jeezy
I Luv It by young jeezy, its my motiviation song. i listen to it to start out my day. Man I like your tip. it should be fun and games. when you think of it that way, it steers away any insecurity.
 
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