"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just Have Fun..

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"Check the watch nigga it's my time." - Young Jeezy

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I've been playing it up sort of. I was hooking up with a girl when it turned 2007, it was a great way to begin the year.

but the thing is she told me "me and this guy are close at my school so don't tell anyone." I laughed and said ok.

She calls me the next day and we talk for a bit. I was thinking I had to talk to her a lot during the first week to eliminate this guy, WRONG!

At the *high school* level it's all about having fun, you gotta just call girls when you want to hangout. The day before works well too.

But when you make it seem "serious," the girl gets scared and doesn't want to hangout.

You just want to be getting girls for fun, there's no pressure believe me.

I've already hooked up with three girls this year, yeah.

It's all fun and games.

The one thing guys forget when trying to pick up girls is that when your anxious and always double checking, triple checking that their hangout with them it screams desperation.

Girls dont like desperate guys, they want to believe that you have a choice of girls.

I had a girl tell me once "I've hooked up with a bunch of popular guys... *starts listing names."

I'm laughing at her and she finally says "Do you want to hook up?"

exactly.

And being direct with a girl DOES NOT work all the time.

let me give you an example...

I'm calling this girl and tell her straight up "Yo Im gonna pick you up at 6pm and were going to hangout alright."

she replies "What!? you never told me beforehand im hanging out with my best friend and going to the game. do u want me to call you later?"

Ah i'm like ah whatever.

sometimes girls will flake like this and u just gotta act chill. But eventually you have to push forward and just make her hangout because there unsure what they want.

for example the girl i hooked up with on new years that was close with a guy at her school.

i told her "Look I just really want to get to know you to see how it'd work out. If you don't want the same then just tell me I don't care."

We hung out again.

It all works out ... you gotta push forwards and pull back at the right times...

It's all a game and it should be fun.

You want to be hooking up with as many girls as possible try not to focus on one girl because they notice that sh1t.

so just have fun and good luck

*note: don't hook up with really slutty girls that everyone makes fun/ hates because girls think lower of u for it*****
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Void said:
"Check the watch nigga it's my time." - Young Jeezy
I Luv It by young jeezy, its my motiviation song. i listen to it to start out my day. Man I like your tip. it should be fun and games. when you think of it that way, it steers away any insecurity.
 
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