It was awful. One of the worst thing I ever have to do. Especially when it's a girl who has been genuinely sweet to you, but you had to move on for other reasons. I've never heard someone cry so hard. Man it hurt to do that...
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just had to break it off with a girl tonight
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I was in that position for the first time last week, and like you, I had to drop someone who was nice, but due to other circumstances had to end it. I am usually the one who gets dumped and I thought that things were easy for the person who does the dumping, but now I know that it certainly isn't. It has changed my perspective on things, as now I can see what position some of my ex girlfriends would have been in when they broke up with me, and while that is all ancient history, it has helped me accept past events better.
Telling someone you don't want to see them any more really hurts. I know people think that it's AFC to feel like that but whatever. I had to do that last night also and it kept me from getting sleep even though it had to be done. I'm still thinking about her this morning but I know she's feeling it twice as bad.
There were a few reasons, but I think the main reason is because she was too emotionally needy/clingy/insecure and I felt the pressure to take things to a level I was simply not ready for. She was deeply in love with me, and although I loved her, there was too much imbalance in intensity of feelings and I knew it.intheRed said:
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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