I just got my own apartment with a roomate, and at 21 i feel im set up for entering the prime of my sex life. We had these 2 girls over we knew from work and we were all gettin drunk and they hung out til like 5 am but NOTHING HAPPEND. My roomate was kind of quiet and I didnt know how to seperate the really hot girl i was trying to fuk from her friend and into my room. Anyway a week has passed, I need DJ advice on how to bed this girl. Shes wild saying things like "id f any guy with his own apartment just cuz it beats other guyss moms house" so im pretty sure she wants it. But I dont know if it was cuz she was drunk. Should I call her and invite her over without her friend who im actually better friends with when my roomate isnt there?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
just got my own place!!
- Thread starter dice
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
white cloud 8
Senior Don Juan
f*ck, what do you think? 
seriously though, grab your balls and man up
seriously though, grab your balls and man upISOLATE then SEDUCE..
Listen, you must ALWAYS find a way to ISOLATE your target from the group.. especially from her friend(s).
One way that I do this is by saying "Hey, come check out my fishtank, guitar, kama sutra book...etc". Then lead her by the hand (as though she were your lil sister) to your room.
Now its just the two of you, strike up conversation about what your showing her or wherever the convo goes from there.
Then once she seems compfortable with you (i.e. she trusts you).. move the toppic to something physical- tickle her, KINO her!
You know what to do from there, and if you dont, get yourself Mystery Method (download it free- but you didnt hear it from me).
PHAME
Listen, you must ALWAYS find a way to ISOLATE your target from the group.. especially from her friend(s).
One way that I do this is by saying "Hey, come check out my fishtank, guitar, kama sutra book...etc". Then lead her by the hand (as though she were your lil sister) to your room.
Now its just the two of you, strike up conversation about what your showing her or wherever the convo goes from there.
Then once she seems compfortable with you (i.e. she trusts you).. move the toppic to something physical- tickle her, KINO her!
You know what to do from there, and if you dont, get yourself Mystery Method (download it free- but you didnt hear it from me
).PHAME
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Re: ISOLATE then SEDUCE..
And then as soon as you get her in your room, just be like "There's no fish tank, chick... gear down now.."
Good ploy.
And then as soon as you get her in your room, just be like "There's no fish tank, chick... gear down now.."
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No, in fact, don't call her again. Just give me her #. You are not in the prime of your sex life b/c u know jack sh#t about game.
If those 2 girls came over to your place knowing it was just u and your roommate you had SO many opportunities to flirt and run game. IMO, you just friend-zoned yourself, or your right on the border. When u like a girl, you must be sexual. No waiting for the time to be right, b/c the time will never be right. you have to make it happen.
Sometimes I think you people on this board are better off just being gay. You'll have more luck.
I was flirting all night, in fact so much i think i kept myself out of the friend zone enough for one more shot, i just didnt isolate
dont u see, i understand i missed not just one opportunity that night, but probably thousands of opportunities. I can only kick myself in the head so many times about the same night. But, the girls did come to the apartment and the point of my post was to improve myself which is what we all preach, so apparently I DO know something about game. Anyways can someone answer my question or give me some real advice
dont u see, i understand i missed not just one opportunity that night, but probably thousands of opportunities. I can only kick myself in the head so many times about the same night. But, the girls did come to the apartment and the point of my post was to improve myself which is what we all preach, so apparently I DO know something about game. Anyways can someone answer my question or give me some real advice