I just got my own apartment with a roomate, and at 21 i feel im set up for entering the prime of my sex life. We had these 2 girls over we knew from work and we were all gettin drunk and they hung out til like 5 am but NOTHING HAPPEND. My roomate was kind of quiet and I didnt know how to seperate the really hot girl i was trying to fuk from her friend and into my room. Anyway a week has passed, I need DJ advice on how to bed this girl. Shes wild saying things like "id f any guy with his own apartment just cuz it beats other guyss moms house" so im pretty sure she wants it. But I dont know if it was cuz she was drunk. Should I call her and invite her over without her friend who im actually better friends with when my roomate isnt there?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
just got my own place!!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
white cloud 8
Senior Don Juan
f*ck, what do you think? 
seriously though, grab your balls and man up
seriously though, grab your balls and man upISOLATE then SEDUCE..
Listen, you must ALWAYS find a way to ISOLATE your target from the group.. especially from her friend(s).
One way that I do this is by saying "Hey, come check out my fishtank, guitar, kama sutra book...etc". Then lead her by the hand (as though she were your lil sister) to your room.
Now its just the two of you, strike up conversation about what your showing her or wherever the convo goes from there.
Then once she seems compfortable with you (i.e. she trusts you).. move the toppic to something physical- tickle her, KINO her!
You know what to do from there, and if you dont, get yourself Mystery Method (download it free- but you didnt hear it from me).
PHAME
Listen, you must ALWAYS find a way to ISOLATE your target from the group.. especially from her friend(s).
One way that I do this is by saying "Hey, come check out my fishtank, guitar, kama sutra book...etc". Then lead her by the hand (as though she were your lil sister) to your room.
Now its just the two of you, strike up conversation about what your showing her or wherever the convo goes from there.
Then once she seems compfortable with you (i.e. she trusts you).. move the toppic to something physical- tickle her, KINO her!
You know what to do from there, and if you dont, get yourself Mystery Method (download it free- but you didnt hear it from me
).PHAME
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Re: ISOLATE then SEDUCE..
And then as soon as you get her in your room, just be like "There's no fish tank, chick... gear down now.."
Good ploy.
And then as soon as you get her in your room, just be like "There's no fish tank, chick... gear down now.."
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
No, in fact, don't call her again. Just give me her #. You are not in the prime of your sex life b/c u know jack sh#t about game.
If those 2 girls came over to your place knowing it was just u and your roommate you had SO many opportunities to flirt and run game. IMO, you just friend-zoned yourself, or your right on the border. When u like a girl, you must be sexual. No waiting for the time to be right, b/c the time will never be right. you have to make it happen.
Sometimes I think you people on this board are better off just being gay. You'll have more luck.
I was flirting all night, in fact so much i think i kept myself out of the friend zone enough for one more shot, i just didnt isolate
dont u see, i understand i missed not just one opportunity that night, but probably thousands of opportunities. I can only kick myself in the head so many times about the same night. But, the girls did come to the apartment and the point of my post was to improve myself which is what we all preach, so apparently I DO know something about game. Anyways can someone answer my question or give me some real advice
dont u see, i understand i missed not just one opportunity that night, but probably thousands of opportunities. I can only kick myself in the head so many times about the same night. But, the girls did come to the apartment and the point of my post was to improve myself which is what we all preach, so apparently I DO know something about game. Anyways can someone answer my question or give me some real advice