I just got my own apartment with a roomate, and at 21 i feel im set up for entering the prime of my sex life. We had these 2 girls over we knew from work and we were all gettin drunk and they hung out til like 5 am but NOTHING HAPPEND. My roomate was kind of quiet and I didnt know how to seperate the really hot girl i was trying to fuk from her friend and into my room. Anyway a week has passed, I need DJ advice on how to bed this girl. Shes wild saying things like "id f any guy with his own apartment just cuz it beats other guyss moms house" so im pretty sure she wants it. But I dont know if it was cuz she was drunk. Should I call her and invite her over without her friend who im actually better friends with when my roomate isnt there?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
just got my own place!!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
white cloud 8
Senior Don Juan
f*ck, what do you think? 
seriously though, grab your balls and man up
seriously though, grab your balls and man upISOLATE then SEDUCE..
Listen, you must ALWAYS find a way to ISOLATE your target from the group.. especially from her friend(s).
One way that I do this is by saying "Hey, come check out my fishtank, guitar, kama sutra book...etc". Then lead her by the hand (as though she were your lil sister) to your room.
Now its just the two of you, strike up conversation about what your showing her or wherever the convo goes from there.
Then once she seems compfortable with you (i.e. she trusts you).. move the toppic to something physical- tickle her, KINO her!
You know what to do from there, and if you dont, get yourself Mystery Method (download it free- but you didnt hear it from me).
PHAME
Listen, you must ALWAYS find a way to ISOLATE your target from the group.. especially from her friend(s).
One way that I do this is by saying "Hey, come check out my fishtank, guitar, kama sutra book...etc". Then lead her by the hand (as though she were your lil sister) to your room.
Now its just the two of you, strike up conversation about what your showing her or wherever the convo goes from there.
Then once she seems compfortable with you (i.e. she trusts you).. move the toppic to something physical- tickle her, KINO her!
You know what to do from there, and if you dont, get yourself Mystery Method (download it free- but you didnt hear it from me
).PHAME
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Re: ISOLATE then SEDUCE..
And then as soon as you get her in your room, just be like "There's no fish tank, chick... gear down now.."
Good ploy.
And then as soon as you get her in your room, just be like "There's no fish tank, chick... gear down now.."
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
No, in fact, don't call her again. Just give me her #. You are not in the prime of your sex life b/c u know jack sh#t about game.
If those 2 girls came over to your place knowing it was just u and your roommate you had SO many opportunities to flirt and run game. IMO, you just friend-zoned yourself, or your right on the border. When u like a girl, you must be sexual. No waiting for the time to be right, b/c the time will never be right. you have to make it happen.
Sometimes I think you people on this board are better off just being gay. You'll have more luck.
I was flirting all night, in fact so much i think i kept myself out of the friend zone enough for one more shot, i just didnt isolate
dont u see, i understand i missed not just one opportunity that night, but probably thousands of opportunities. I can only kick myself in the head so many times about the same night. But, the girls did come to the apartment and the point of my post was to improve myself which is what we all preach, so apparently I DO know something about game. Anyways can someone answer my question or give me some real advice
dont u see, i understand i missed not just one opportunity that night, but probably thousands of opportunities. I can only kick myself in the head so many times about the same night. But, the girls did come to the apartment and the point of my post was to improve myself which is what we all preach, so apparently I DO know something about game. Anyways can someone answer my question or give me some real advice