I did it, my first attempt and it was successful. I was eating in denny's with my cousin and we were talking to the waitress a lot, HB7, about 18 or 19, and I thought I would just gather up my nuts and do it. Keep in mind i'm 16 too. lol. We were chatting and kind of giving her a hard time about our drinks being empty for a while and talking about random BS, we got the check, and she walks away with my cousins debit card to pay and i say "Hey hold on!" she turns around and looks "You forgot something" I said. She walks over and asks what thinking I was just gonna give her a hard time and I said "Your number in my phone" with a smile and held my phone out, i wasnt thinking i was gonna get it, she says something about her phone being turned off or is gonna get turned off but will be turned on again in a week or something, I didnt fully understand but i said thats ok and she gives me her number and walks away. I thought she meant it was already turned off so I called it and I hear her phone ringing in the kitchen. LOL, she answered and we talked for about 10 seconds and I said ok bye bye and as we were walking out she happily said "have a good night!"
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Just got my first number!
- Thread starter jookins
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sasha
Don Juan
HAHAHA :crackup:
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
Yeah you called a bit too soon! LOL but at least you know the # is real.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
HereToImprove
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There are a few instances where calling the same would be OK, like when I recently overgamed a girl who gave me extreme IOIs recently. I had to call her so that I could demonstrate enough interest in her that she wouldnt feel like I was out of her league.
One minute is just kinda cheesy though. You didn't have enough IOIs or a plan for the call to make this a good move.
One minute is just kinda cheesy though. You didn't have enough IOIs or a plan for the call to make this a good move.
ConfidentDon
Don Juan
Hey congrats on the number. Now wait until alteast Wedsday though I personally would wait until Thursday to call her. And when you do call her call around 9:30 to 10:00 p.m. The reason for this being that most woman don't really go out during the week so it will be easier to get a hold of her. Plus if it's later at night you'll be the last thing she thinks about before she goes to bed. ALWAYS a good thing. 
Also I would say that personally the first call shouldn't be longer than 10-15 minutes. Just try to make a date to go out. Don't ask her just assume that you are going to go out on a date. Say something like "Hey lets go out to lunch together what days are you free?" See I didn't ASK her if she wanted to have lunch with me I very politely told her that she was coming then I asked her what days she has off. Good luck! And remember to have fun!
Also I would say that personally the first call shouldn't be longer than 10-15 minutes. Just try to make a date to go out. Don't ask her just assume that you are going to go out on a date. Say something like "Hey lets go out to lunch together what days are you free?" See I didn't ASK her if she wanted to have lunch with me I very politely told her that she was coming then I asked her what days she has off. Good luck! And remember to have fun!I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
What the heck are IOIs?
h2o
Banned
IOI = Indicator of Interest
btw, congrats on the number
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I just called to check if it was turned off or not and it was hilarious when I heard her phone ringing in the kitchen. she answered it laughing and i said "well its not turned off!" the girl was good looking and cute but not much of my type so I don't even know if i'm gonna call her. lol
Nice done!
And... don't worry about that calling-thing. It was funny!
It can be a little bit ****y and charming to call or sms the same minute and write something funny. I got a number from a girl on a bus once, and the very minute she left I wrote something like "Hi, do you remember me? I don't know if im too forward now, but i just had to write you something!!!"
If the girl is really, really, stupid she'll look at you like you're desperate - But if she's THAT stupid there's nothing to gain at all anyways.
Keep it up!
And... don't worry about that calling-thing. It was funny!
It can be a little bit ****y and charming to call or sms the same minute and write something funny. I got a number from a girl on a bus once, and the very minute she left I wrote something like "Hi, do you remember me? I don't know if im too forward now, but i just had to write you something!!!"
If the girl is really, really, stupid she'll look at you like you're desperate - But if she's THAT stupid there's nothing to gain at all anyways.
Keep it up!
josekortez
Don Juan
Personally, I think there is nothing wrong with calling it to make sure she wasn't on some b.s.
Rules are made to be broken.
Once a girl gave me her phone number.
I called her about a minute later because I was looking at my outgoing phone numbers and trying to figure out who I called (I was a bit drunk, I didn't put 2 and 2 together). She answered, and she was like "you forgot me already?" and I told her "I don't remember people when I'm drunk. Next time I see you we'll just have to meet all over again." I saw her about 5 minutes later, and she runs up and says "Hi, I'm Rose and I'm awesome - so don't forget me this time!"
Well, the next day she called me and invited me to go hot tubbing at her place with her and her roommates. By 10 that night I was sitting naked in a hot tub with 3 girls I'd never met and the girl I called a minute later. They turned out to be nutcases, and I never called her back, but I had fun.
If you're funny enough about it, you can get away with anything.
Once a girl gave me her phone number.
I called her about a minute later because I was looking at my outgoing phone numbers and trying to figure out who I called (I was a bit drunk, I didn't put 2 and 2 together). She answered, and she was like "you forgot me already?" and I told her "I don't remember people when I'm drunk. Next time I see you we'll just have to meet all over again." I saw her about 5 minutes later, and she runs up and says "Hi, I'm Rose and I'm awesome - so don't forget me this time!"
Well, the next day she called me and invited me to go hot tubbing at her place with her and her roommates. By 10 that night I was sitting naked in a hot tub with 3 girls I'd never met and the girl I called a minute later. They turned out to be nutcases, and I never called her back, but I had fun.
If you're funny enough about it, you can get away with anything.