"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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RyKnOw

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Whats up guys,


The reason why I am writing this,is because before I deployed to Iraq I met this chick from dallas tx.We talked a couple of times on the phone and she was going to come to fort hood to see me before I deployed,but she couldnt come for some reason.To make a long story short I just got a voicemail from her last night saying she wanted to talk to me.Im thinking I shouldnt waist my time.Are my intentions right?Just curious



Ryknow
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JohnJones

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Why not try? You're a returning hero of a dangerous war, protecting her from evil forces, why shouldn't she be excited to get with you?
 

JJMcLure

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I understand where you're coming from thinking she canceled on your one time before.

But what does it hurt to return a call? To protect your ego in case she cancels again?

Why NEXT a chick who is willing to call you and wants to talk to you. Some chicks you can't even get on the phone, let alone to call YOU!

It's not like you will invest a lot of time or money in a call. See what she has to say and try to arrange another meet if you just want to cut to the chase and be sure you're not wasting your time.
 

RyKnOw

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My intentions where to next her and go on but you guys proved a good point.Thanks!
 
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