"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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RyKnOw

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Whats up guys,


The reason why I am writing this,is because before I deployed to Iraq I met this chick from dallas tx.We talked a couple of times on the phone and she was going to come to fort hood to see me before I deployed,but she couldnt come for some reason.To make a long story short I just got a voicemail from her last night saying she wanted to talk to me.Im thinking I shouldnt waist my time.Are my intentions right?Just curious



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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why not try? You're a returning hero of a dangerous war, protecting her from evil forces, why shouldn't she be excited to get with you?
 
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I understand where you're coming from thinking she canceled on your one time before.

But what does it hurt to return a call? To protect your ego in case she cancels again?

Why NEXT a chick who is willing to call you and wants to talk to you. Some chicks you can't even get on the phone, let alone to call YOU!

It's not like you will invest a lot of time or money in a call. See what she has to say and try to arrange another meet if you just want to cut to the chase and be sure you're not wasting your time.
 
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My intentions where to next her and go on but you guys proved a good point.Thanks!
 
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