"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Poonani Maker

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This young, but kinda ug - not fat, just too many freckles, teller has flirted with me in the past, but it's been a good 5 months since I last saw her. All the tellers, when they find out where I work, want to jump me, I can tell, and they always hire big-titted college students. So today I go in and make a deposit. She starts asking me about the "weather out there." I say it's getting warmer, but that the forecasters have already changed their minds about this weekend blah blah. So she just blurts out that her and her friends are going skiing at blah blah. This, for me, was a decision point. Should I follow up with questions about her ski trip or just try to back away quietly? She's teetering on ugly, but I Might do her on a bad day I'm thinkin. She has a nose ring, seems like a hippy flower chick. I generally don't go for these weak kind, so I try to end the conversation and find and escape route. I could tell that she wanted me to ask her about her ski trip, but I'll see her again, and quite frankly I'm not attracted to her. Should I have just made her a plate of mine just for the sake of having a jealousy pawn when out with her? Do you pick up ANY plate you can or are you discriminating in your plates in regard to over all - God dang-it! as I write this I'm starting to imagine fvcking this hippy! Oh, well..Yet again, another opportunity crapped on by my absent mind :cry:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I use to but most times I don't anymore. The reason is because I don't want to have to put up with her when I'm not in the mood. A prime example, I've got this longtime FB, however the last time I was with her, it wasn't that great.

However I've kept her around because she'll do all kinds of favours/errands for me. Well she wanted to get together on the weekend and I was drunk but ready to go home, got an email from her and was going to go to her house but I decided that I didn't want my ride to know that I was banging her. So I bailed.

Well the next day she called, wanted me to go see her and I just didn't want to even have to deal with her. So I find its not worth it chasing plates that you don't really want anymore.
 
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It's entirely up to you. I personally wouldn't hump a chick I wasn't attracted to. Depending on the circumstances :)
 
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