"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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just got a call from the sti clinic

randalll

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im all clean
apparently

i've had clear symptoms of chl/gono for 10-11 days though, and they're not letting up.

has anyone else had all tests come back negative when they thought they had something?

im confused about this, i was actually expecting to have something.

of course, i'm going to go to the doctor and get other tests done, but i'm wondering what this could be, i can't find anything about it on the web.. it's all about chlamydia and gonorrhoea. is there a chance they could have done the tests wrong? are there different types of chlamydia that don't show up on tests?

i've had constant urinary problems for a year now, ever since i first became sexually active.. but since that i went for about 10 months without any sex. the problems persisted through this time. are there any other 'minor' infections that don't really get talked/campaigned about and like chlamydia does?

thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KontrollerX

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You should get tested for prostatitis.

It can be anywhere from easy to diagnose to difficult depending on the type you have.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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