"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just go with it and have fun

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Even if she has a dude.......have fun with her. Case in point.

Last night I was out with some friends. I met this redhead HB7 Id say. After meeting her I found out she had a bf from my other chick friend who was there. But we seemed to hit it off, so I kept up with the fun we were having. She told us how "she used to be hot" and I agreed I said "I know HB7....it been a long sad fall for you to this current state. Its really Marlon Brando-esque." She laughed really hard, kind playfully hit me and said "youre such an ass" :D A little later I stole her drink from her and played it off like it was mine. So she played along and asked for some of the drink.I guess she thought that was kinda funny too. Needless to say by the end of the night I had her loving me. She came up from behind me and starting feelin up my arms, chest and stomach. She was like "My bf would kill me if he caught me doing this, but I cant help it". I just smiled.

So even if youre out and there are no single hotties afoot have fun with the surroundings. They might just hit on you anyway. :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by OldNumb3r7
"My bf would kill me if he caught me doing this, but I cant help it".
Nice. I would of said something like...

"you better be nice then, or i'll spill the beans"

or

"you probably shouldn't tell him then"


Great story though, I enjoy those types of situations, lol.
 

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Originally posted by OldNumb3r7
I know HB7....it been a long sad fall for you to this current state
Brilliant!! :D
 

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yeah she thought that was pretty funny. Especially when I compared her to Brando. I was like "yeah at one time youre like him in Guys and Dolls. Now.......Island of Dr Moreau"

If we were at a house party I couldve got with her. Lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just got off the phone with my friend. She said that chick said she wanted to have sex with me on the car ride home. LOL. damn me for not getting her alone :D

I guess she said something like "ive only been with one guy and I really wanted to have sex with your friend". this chick has been with her dude since HS I guess. Funny ****.
 
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