Just give me some hints...

[niki18x5cm]

I have broke up with my wife at the beginning of this year. We are still merried. We had an open relationship and did some 3-somes and 4-somes... With her I was the "too good" guy, and she went to the "bad guy".
She has not made her mind yet about whether she wants to come back to me, or stay with him.
I would be very happy, if she gets back to me.

So here are my questions to you.

1. As I am "the good guy", and I have always been such, do you think she could go away if I become a little more "bad"? I mean I am not sure if she decides to come back to me if she would like to have the same "good guy".

2. I do not have much problems with getting numbers and quite some girls are ready to go out with me. She is quite jelous. I have gone out on real love dates, as I have not wanted to. but do you think it would help or would hurt the situation if I do?

Just give me your thoughts, please!

Regards!

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

use the fact that other gilrs want you as a tool, so she has competion, but do not go on dates with them, you wnat her to see you are in demand, not that you will date them, dating them will be a bad move.

as for begin a bad guy, aka a jerk, you do not have to be, as discuessed earley jerks have qualites owmen want and others women do not wnat, a real man has all these qualites, so be a rela man, charming and confident, funny, untouchable, stand up for yourself and what you belive in. show these qualites in everything you do if you need more adivce then feel free to ask me and or send a private message to me

hope iv been a help

 

[squirrels]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56249

Read, then see if you still have a question.

 

[NewMan]

Don't contact her - and go do your own thing.

Give yourself some time.

Let her wonder about you and what you are doing..