"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Just Friends"

RagingBull

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I have a very hot female friend.

I told her I was interested in more, and predictably, she wasn't. Blah blah.

Am I kissing up to her? No.

I'm not talking to her anymore.

If she comes crawling, great. If I see her again, I'm going to kiss her on the lips. If that bothers her, tough.

Zero effort. Possibly low chance of payoff, but I don't really give a damn either way.

Fieldmarshall Rommel, when he was leading his infantry company in World War I, instructed the men to begin firing on stands of trees, before they saw any enemies. The reasoning was, essentially, even if there was only a 1% chance of making a hit, the law of diminishing firepower made it pay off. It was a numbers game.

Much like dating. If this girl doesn't see what she has, she can eff off and I'm already working on the next ones.

Oh, and hi, gents.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BackToTheMack

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You soudn like your going to be succesfull nice change of pace from the AFC's in here ceying about there GF's and the girls that dont like them.
 

RagingBull

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Oh, I know I'm going to be successful.

And I care about her, very much, enough so that I'll let her be with a guy who's going to treat her well. That is, me.

But I'm #1 and I look out for #1
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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