"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just friends at the prom

wavejams007

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Question to all you DJs out there. I invited a girl to the prom, but I only want to be a friend with her, no romantic realtions. How do I make sure she stays clear on that without coming across as cold?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nivek

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sadly its true, if you asked her to prom she'll think your interested. you shoulda just asked the girl you liked or a girl you like.. kinda makes it pointless to blow 100+ dollars on a girl you don't have an interest in.
 

wavejams007

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My admission is free, and it only costs 30 dollars for the girl. I did ask another girl that I liked and still do, but she turned me down in a round about sort of way. She is weird, cuz she sends me mixed signals.
 
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