wavejams007
Master Don Juan
Question to all you DJs out there. I invited a girl to the prom, but I only want to be a friend with her, no romantic realtions. How do I make sure she stays clear on that without coming across as cold?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.