"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just friends at the prom

wavejams007

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Question to all you DJs out there. I invited a girl to the prom, but I only want to be a friend with her, no romantic realtions. How do I make sure she stays clear on that without coming across as cold?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nivek

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sadly its true, if you asked her to prom she'll think your interested. you shoulda just asked the girl you liked or a girl you like.. kinda makes it pointless to blow 100+ dollars on a girl you don't have an interest in.
 

wavejams007

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My admission is free, and it only costs 30 dollars for the girl. I did ask another girl that I liked and still do, but she turned me down in a round about sort of way. She is weird, cuz she sends me mixed signals.
 
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