"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just entered my 1st LTR in a while

Mizzikiel

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This is my first LRT in 1year 9 months. I had a big crush on this girl near the end of last year, I asked her out twice last year (neither of them were obvious that i was asking her out) and got rejected twice. Over the summer, I completely changed myself.

I started wearing fitting shirts instead of stuff one or 2 sizes too big. I cut my hair short since I looked bad with long hair, I got contacts and worked on my confidence etc.

Over the summer I never saw her, then school started and I was the new me. I was funny, confident, attractive etc. During out classes together I was getting TONS of IOIs from her. We went out a few times and on Saturday we made it official.

If it weren't for this site, which introduced me into the entire world of PUAs, I can guarantee I'd still be that unconfident nerd I was last year.

So thank you, especially to Lord-Grin, who I talked to for hours and hours about this sort of stuff.


On a side note: I made the worst 1st impression on her dad. Last night I had WAY to much to drink at a party as her place, and ended up throwing up a bunch of times in her backyard. Luckily she convinced her dad to ignore it and give me another chance. I'll update on how that goes when it happens.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Crazy Asian

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and her parents didn't care that u were drinking under age?
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Crazy Asian said:
and her parents didn't care that u were drinking under age?
you're asian. of course your parents won't allow you to drink underage in their supervision.

i was weirded out when i went to my BFF's house to party and his dad was the most drunk person there with a bunch of high school kids.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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HAHA good job man! Keep up the good work. Just be sober next time!
 

Mizzikiel

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Yeah, I decided next party that I'm either not drinking a drop or atleast drinking VERY lightly. And I think I'll go over there on Wednesday or something and talk to him.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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comic_relief

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Mizzikiel said:
Yeah, I decided next party that I'm either not drinking a drop or atleast drinking VERY lightly. And I think I'll go over there on Wednesday or something and talk to him.
good idea, btw wtf are you drinking for at such a young age?

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