"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just entered my 1st LTR in a while

Mizzikiel

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This is my first LRT in 1year 9 months. I had a big crush on this girl near the end of last year, I asked her out twice last year (neither of them were obvious that i was asking her out) and got rejected twice. Over the summer, I completely changed myself.

I started wearing fitting shirts instead of stuff one or 2 sizes too big. I cut my hair short since I looked bad with long hair, I got contacts and worked on my confidence etc.

Over the summer I never saw her, then school started and I was the new me. I was funny, confident, attractive etc. During out classes together I was getting TONS of IOIs from her. We went out a few times and on Saturday we made it official.

If it weren't for this site, which introduced me into the entire world of PUAs, I can guarantee I'd still be that unconfident nerd I was last year.

So thank you, especially to Lord-Grin, who I talked to for hours and hours about this sort of stuff.


On a side note: I made the worst 1st impression on her dad. Last night I had WAY to much to drink at a party as her place, and ended up throwing up a bunch of times in her backyard. Luckily she convinced her dad to ignore it and give me another chance. I'll update on how that goes when it happens.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Crazy Asian

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and her parents didn't care that u were drinking under age?
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Crazy Asian said:
and her parents didn't care that u were drinking under age?
you're asian. of course your parents won't allow you to drink underage in their supervision.

i was weirded out when i went to my BFF's house to party and his dad was the most drunk person there with a bunch of high school kids.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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HAHA good job man! Keep up the good work. Just be sober next time!
 

Mizzikiel

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Yeah, I decided next party that I'm either not drinking a drop or atleast drinking VERY lightly. And I think I'll go over there on Wednesday or something and talk to him.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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comic_relief

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Mizzikiel said:
Yeah, I decided next party that I'm either not drinking a drop or atleast drinking VERY lightly. And I think I'll go over there on Wednesday or something and talk to him.
good idea, btw wtf are you drinking for at such a young age?

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