"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just entered my 1st LTR in a while

Mizzikiel

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This is my first LRT in 1year 9 months. I had a big crush on this girl near the end of last year, I asked her out twice last year (neither of them were obvious that i was asking her out) and got rejected twice. Over the summer, I completely changed myself.

I started wearing fitting shirts instead of stuff one or 2 sizes too big. I cut my hair short since I looked bad with long hair, I got contacts and worked on my confidence etc.

Over the summer I never saw her, then school started and I was the new me. I was funny, confident, attractive etc. During out classes together I was getting TONS of IOIs from her. We went out a few times and on Saturday we made it official.

If it weren't for this site, which introduced me into the entire world of PUAs, I can guarantee I'd still be that unconfident nerd I was last year.

So thank you, especially to Lord-Grin, who I talked to for hours and hours about this sort of stuff.


On a side note: I made the worst 1st impression on her dad. Last night I had WAY to much to drink at a party as her place, and ended up throwing up a bunch of times in her backyard. Luckily she convinced her dad to ignore it and give me another chance. I'll update on how that goes when it happens.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Crazy Asian

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and her parents didn't care that u were drinking under age?
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Crazy Asian said:
and her parents didn't care that u were drinking under age?
you're asian. of course your parents won't allow you to drink underage in their supervision.

i was weirded out when i went to my BFF's house to party and his dad was the most drunk person there with a bunch of high school kids.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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HAHA good job man! Keep up the good work. Just be sober next time!
 

Mizzikiel

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Yeah, I decided next party that I'm either not drinking a drop or atleast drinking VERY lightly. And I think I'll go over there on Wednesday or something and talk to him.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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comic_relief

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Mizzikiel said:
Yeah, I decided next party that I'm either not drinking a drop or atleast drinking VERY lightly. And I think I'll go over there on Wednesday or something and talk to him.
good idea, btw wtf are you drinking for at such a young age?

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