"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just divorced and don't know how to ask a girl out

bigjohnson

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Hooligan Harry said:
BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Hell, if you dont sort out self esteem issues, you sure are going to have a lot of fun trying to fix em.
Too bad the post this was in response to has mysteriously vanished.

Apparently advising someone to go to a foreign country where he is highly sought after and date a lot of girls for a few weeks is against the mangina code.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mr.Positive

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STR8UP said:
This is another one of those things where one size doesn't fit all.

Text/email are simply alternate forms of communication. It's HOW you use them that determines what comes of the situation.
True, but for me personally, I've found that text messaging and emailing women is a waste of time. I just don't have the patience for it, it seems to add another buffer, another level of game, wall to climb over..

I just don't see how attraction can be created or enhanced, through a medium that is completely void of any personality.

If I talk to a gal on the phone, my voice is unique, and when I see her in person...my presence is unique.

I have not yet found out a way to be "unique" via email or text message.

So, I boycott it. Intentionally. If a gal emails me, if I want to see her, I call. If a gal text messages me, I don't text back...I call.
 

STR8UP

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Mr.Positive said:
True, but for me personally, I've found that text messaging and emailing women is a waste of time. I just don't have the patience for it, it seems to add another buffer, another level of game, wall to climb over..

I just don't see how attraction can be created or enhanced, through a medium that is completely void of any personality.

If I talk to a gal on the phone, my voice is unique, and when I see her in person...my presence is unique.

I have not yet found out a way to be "unique" via email or text message.

So, I boycott it. Intentionally. If a gal emails me, if I want to see her, I call. If a gal text messages me, I don't text back...I call.
Some women are simply used to communicating a certain way. It is often easier to get a response from a woman by utilizing these methods of communication. think David D. "Oh, BTW....do you have email?"

I agree, face to face contact is of utmost importance to building attraction.

However.....to categorically state that texting and email should NEVER be used doesn't account for all situations.
 
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