"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hooligan Harry said:
BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Hell, if you dont sort out self esteem issues, you sure are going to have a lot of fun trying to fix em.
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Too bad the post this was in response to has mysteriously vanished.

Apparently advising someone to go to a foreign country where he is highly sought after and date a lot of girls for a few weeks is against the mangina code.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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STR8UP said:
This is another one of those things where one size doesn't fit all.

Text/email are simply alternate forms of communication. It's HOW you use them that determines what comes of the situation.
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True, but for me personally, I've found that text messaging and emailing women is a waste of time. I just don't have the patience for it, it seems to add another buffer, another level of game, wall to climb over..

I just don't see how attraction can be created or enhanced, through a medium that is completely void of any personality.

If I talk to a gal on the phone, my voice is unique, and when I see her in person...my presence is unique.

I have not yet found out a way to be "unique" via email or text message.

So, I boycott it. Intentionally. If a gal emails me, if I want to see her, I call. If a gal text messages me, I don't text back...I call.
 
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Mr.Positive said:
True, but for me personally, I've found that text messaging and emailing women is a waste of time. I just don't have the patience for it, it seems to add another buffer, another level of game, wall to climb over..

I just don't see how attraction can be created or enhanced, through a medium that is completely void of any personality.

If I talk to a gal on the phone, my voice is unique, and when I see her in person...my presence is unique.

I have not yet found out a way to be "unique" via email or text message.

So, I boycott it. Intentionally. If a gal emails me, if I want to see her, I call. If a gal text messages me, I don't text back...I call.
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Some women are simply used to communicating a certain way. It is often easier to get a response from a woman by utilizing these methods of communication. think David D. "Oh, BTW....do you have email?"

I agree, face to face contact is of utmost importance to building attraction.

However.....to categorically state that texting and email should NEVER be used doesn't account for all situations.
 
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