"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just divorced and don't know how to ask a girl out

bigjohnson

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Hooligan Harry said:
BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Hell, if you dont sort out self esteem issues, you sure are going to have a lot of fun trying to fix em.
Too bad the post this was in response to has mysteriously vanished.

Apparently advising someone to go to a foreign country where he is highly sought after and date a lot of girls for a few weeks is against the mangina code.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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STR8UP said:
This is another one of those things where one size doesn't fit all.

Text/email are simply alternate forms of communication. It's HOW you use them that determines what comes of the situation.
True, but for me personally, I've found that text messaging and emailing women is a waste of time. I just don't have the patience for it, it seems to add another buffer, another level of game, wall to climb over..

I just don't see how attraction can be created or enhanced, through a medium that is completely void of any personality.

If I talk to a gal on the phone, my voice is unique, and when I see her in person...my presence is unique.

I have not yet found out a way to be "unique" via email or text message.

So, I boycott it. Intentionally. If a gal emails me, if I want to see her, I call. If a gal text messages me, I don't text back...I call.
 

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Mr.Positive said:
True, but for me personally, I've found that text messaging and emailing women is a waste of time. I just don't have the patience for it, it seems to add another buffer, another level of game, wall to climb over..

I just don't see how attraction can be created or enhanced, through a medium that is completely void of any personality.

If I talk to a gal on the phone, my voice is unique, and when I see her in person...my presence is unique.

I have not yet found out a way to be "unique" via email or text message.

So, I boycott it. Intentionally. If a gal emails me, if I want to see her, I call. If a gal text messages me, I don't text back...I call.
Some women are simply used to communicating a certain way. It is often easier to get a response from a woman by utilizing these methods of communication. think David D. "Oh, BTW....do you have email?"

I agree, face to face contact is of utmost importance to building attraction.

However.....to categorically state that texting and email should NEVER be used doesn't account for all situations.
 
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