Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
Hey guys, I'm in my local library at the moment using the computers. Earlier on I was reading some books at the same table as a HB who was studying, so I was thinking of how to approach.
The place was deadly quite, and it would've been awkward to speak, so I asked her for a pen and wrote a short note saying:-
'Hi, I know this could be a bit embarrasing, but I think you're kinda cute and I'd like to talk to you!'
(I then gave her 3 'options' to choose):-
1. Sure, I'd love to
2. No, I'm busy
3. Go & step under a bus!
I then wrote 'P.S. I promise it'll be fun'.
I handed her back the pen with the note, and I saw her smile and write on the back. Shortly she passed me the note back and her message was:-
'Normally I would, but I've got to study for a huge exam for tomorrow (hence the books) and have limited time to revise.....sorry, seriously nothing personal'
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I was totally unphazed by this, and I continued reading. I admit, you could call this a bit 'afc' by writing a note, BUT it was DEADLY quiet in here trust me!!!
But I'll keep on trying....one thing's for sure, my fear has gone down considerably.
I'm confused as to whether it was a rejection or not though. I considered saying 'ok, sure call me when you're not so busy', but somehow it didn't feel right.
Any thoughts? How do you go about approaching a girl in a really quiet scenarios like this?
The place was deadly quite, and it would've been awkward to speak, so I asked her for a pen and wrote a short note saying:-
'Hi, I know this could be a bit embarrasing, but I think you're kinda cute and I'd like to talk to you!'
(I then gave her 3 'options' to choose):-
1. Sure, I'd love to
2. No, I'm busy
3. Go & step under a bus!
I then wrote 'P.S. I promise it'll be fun'.
I handed her back the pen with the note, and I saw her smile and write on the back. Shortly she passed me the note back and her message was:-
'Normally I would, but I've got to study for a huge exam for tomorrow (hence the books) and have limited time to revise.....sorry, seriously nothing personal'
*************************
I was totally unphazed by this, and I continued reading. I admit, you could call this a bit 'afc' by writing a note, BUT it was DEADLY quiet in here trust me!!!
But I'll keep on trying....one thing's for sure, my fear has gone down considerably.
I'm confused as to whether it was a rejection or not though. I considered saying 'ok, sure call me when you're not so busy', but somehow it didn't feel right.
Any thoughts? How do you go about approaching a girl in a really quiet scenarios like this?