i'm just curious. i always catch this chick in my class looking at me from across the room. and everytime i catch her she looks away. the other day i caught her and she gave me a big ass smile. this chick is really hot also, do you guys think she finds me attractive or its nothing... im gonna talk to her next time!!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
just curious!!!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
thatguyjamalx
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Dude, you KNOW what to do, go & do it.
Lexie
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She's definitely interested!
retired_dude
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Please tell me that you don't think if someone smiles at you that they want you. I get dozens of smiles every single day from girls. I know I am sexy, but that doesn't mean that they all want to do the dirty tango with me.
Sometimes I smile at really ugly old women. I feel that I am giving them some sunshine in an otherwise dark and dreary life.
If you want to talk to her there is no harm in it. Just remember that a smile is not the same as her slipping you her number.
Sometimes I smile at really ugly old women. I feel that I am giving them some sunshine in an otherwise dark and dreary life.
If you want to talk to her there is no harm in it. Just remember that a smile is not the same as her slipping you her number.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
jesusrules
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dude get off your ass and talk to her after class lol. Good luck man. =)